problem, close relative Options

[toodlepops.]

ok, i have this close relative who doesn't trust in me. i noe that sounds kinda lame but yea. i've tried proving myself to her. but she still treats me like a small baby, a baby who needs help in everything she does. everytime i try to do something for myself, she'll be lyk, make sure its the "right side up". or she'll say sumthin lyk, "maaybe i should ask somebody to look after you, just to check if you're doing it the right way" it just makes me so sad sumtyms to thing that she doesn't trust me. =[ . im 13, for god's sake.

and she doesn't want to talk to me whenever i try to confront her bout this. any ideas or views?

[aznhunnie6o1]

Ermm.. maybe she treats you like a kid cause you don't know how to spell...

Hmmm.... If it's really something that concerns you, you should sit her down and be like "Look, we need to have a SERIOUS talk and don't ignore me cause it hurts me. If you care about me, you should listen to what I say and talk to me about it." then tell her what you need to, but if she still does the same things to you, then just tell her your 13 for god's sake and since she doesn't seem to care about/trust you, then tell her to just leave you alone and forget about it.