ADVICE, im confused Options

[angelbabystar]

I need some advice....
Im in love with my ex bf he lives in RI and im in PA. Ive known him for 4 years n im still inlove with him. He is movin down in October for College. We havent talked for awhile and like 2 months ago we just started talking again n it's everyday we talk n he keeps tellin me that he loves me and that all the feelings he had are still there that he still loves me and when he talks to me his heart drops. When he comes down here for college we talked about me goin back up with him to RI. I plan on going back with him n living up there he say's he wants me to cuz he loves me and he wants to be with me, but then he always says sumthin like if I dont have a gf when I come back down there and he likes like 5 other girls I dunno I feel like he's tryin to make me jelious or sumthin by talkin about other chicks. Everynight when we talk he always says that he loves me and he said he wants to ask me back out if nothing changes. Im sooo inlove with him and he know's it. I told him it's hard n i tried to get over him but it didnt work, n he was like I dont want you to get over me. I cant stop thinkin about him I dunno what to do. The guys ive gone out with since him n I broke up I find myself comparing them to him n he's all I think about. I dunno what to do??

[xTINAA]

well, one possibility is that because he knows you still love him, he is using your vulnerability to his advantage and messing with you by saying oh i love you too when he really doesn`t. which would be messed up. but another possibility is that he could actually love you too but he is scared to get back together with you because of what could happen between you guys since you care for eachother so much, so he says stuff about other girls to i guess subconciously turn you off so that way you won`t love him anymore and then that fear will go away. orrrr haha another possibility is that he could love you and he could just be a jerk who is trying to make you jealous or something.