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16 and no boyfriend ever, is this normal?
nightshadefire
post Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM
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Hey girls. Well my problem is that I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend.
Yeah, it's not a big deal, but I really want one and I want to experience what everyone in the world except for me has gone through. No, I don't wanna lose my virginity or anything, and I'm for sure not gay or a lesbian, but I'm really picky. I'm asian (filipina, chinese) but I don't like asian guys. I basically just like white guys, to put it bluntly.

I'm pretty decent looking, 4'10" (short), 105 lbs. I'm smart, and funny.

But I'm alone.

Any advice?
 
 
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post Dec 27 2004, 09:33 AM
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happy.gif its pefectly normal.

a lot of guys are timid to approach a girl when shes always with her friends...
are you always like in the center of your friends walking around and stuff?

most times thats what it is... (i would know _dry.gif )
 

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nightshadefire   16 and no boyfriend ever   Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM
MusicalAngel   I didn't get my first boyfriend and first kiss...   Nov 30 2004, 12:29 AM
jambaJUICE   Don't fret. The longer you don't have a b...   Nov 30 2004, 12:35 AM
MyVermilionPlague   You're fine. Don't rush.   Nov 30 2004, 01:01 AM
BoyCrazyGal   haha...dont worry!! i'm 15...n' i ...   Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
stephinika   don't worry about it. some of my friends are 1...   Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
MyChemicalRomance.   yeah theres nothing wrong with that there is no ...   Nov 30 2004, 04:14 AM
yanners   it doesnt matter. what's your rush anyways? ...   Nov 30 2004, 05:36 AM
lilxroxy   QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)...   Nov 30 2004, 07:52 AM
angel-roh   just dont go for abusive boyfriends, cause it can ...   Nov 30 2004, 02:19 PM
thebandchick05   don't even worry! your normal!!...   Nov 30 2004, 10:12 PM
xolilsmileeox   nothing is normal. normal is how u assess urself. ...   Nov 30 2004, 10:45 PM
teenprincess   Your normal. I haven't had a bf, but of course...   Nov 30 2004, 10:48 PM
mouse_3k   its fine, just be patient. yah having a bf feels g...   Nov 30 2004, 10:55 PM
jecissa   you still have your whole life ahead of you. boyfr...   Dec 1 2004, 03:30 AM
ApunBindaas   You are normal. School is more important now. Yo...   Dec 1 2004, 09:04 AM
Shortiiex   it take patience and time.......but what do i know...   Dec 1 2004, 04:24 PM
mirage   education is first, after you get enough of that, ...   Dec 1 2004, 05:13 PM
br0ken smile   i didn't have my first boyfriend until i was 1...   Dec 1 2004, 06:57 PM
dani41790   awww no worries. i know peoples who didnt start da...   Dec 1 2004, 07:07 PM
cutiegrlchic   trust me ur not the onlii one, dont feel left out,...   Dec 1 2004, 07:35 PM
simplyannoy   awwwwwwww don't worry! I don't have a ...   Dec 1 2004, 08:10 PM
nightshadefire   That helped, especially knowing other girls 16 and...   Dec 1 2004, 10:34 PM
_confuzed_   of course =] just because you haven't had a bo...   Dec 1 2004, 10:36 PM
sammi rules you   ..=X i can't say anything about my experiences...   Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM
waccoon   QUOTE(Vaguely Aware @ Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM).....   Dec 1 2004, 11:36 PM
jesssicakung   i can see where youre coming from but i say.. you ...   Dec 2 2004, 12:14 AM
xSonia   well im ugli n 13 n iwill nevr have a bf till i ge...   Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM
babyxyelloe   first, nobody neeeds a boyfriend, but just to let ...   Dec 2 2004, 12:59 AM
Weird addiction   no its not wierd...ull get one soon..dont worry ur...   Dec 2 2004, 11:39 AM
sunissed14127   you dont have to freak...its normal. take your tim...   Dec 2 2004, 12:40 PM
breakingawa0101   Wait for the perfect moment...and time don't w...   Dec 2 2004, 05:01 PM
pullthecord_x   Don't worry, you'll get someone soon. Just...   Dec 2 2004, 07:08 PM
Spirited Away   Teenage girls being sad about not having a boyfrie...   Dec 2 2004, 07:13 PM
iheartsimba   aww don't worry about it. i understand pickyne...   Dec 2 2004, 07:22 PM
gothicvengeance   I'm not an expert on this since I'm only 1...   Dec 2 2004, 08:35 PM
DorkFahSho   there are no asian guys at my school...well only f...   Dec 2 2004, 09:50 PM
imadorkabledxd   nothing wrong with it. i'm picky too =( haha ...   Dec 3 2004, 03:45 PM
Cake.   My brother is currently 16. He went out with this ...   Dec 3 2004, 05:52 PM
laur3nw   Haha. It's ok! Don't worry about it.....   Dec 3 2004, 11:20 PM
feejayjay   I'm in the same boat. My 16th birthday is in ...   Dec 3 2004, 11:31 PM
jennypie   just cause theyre all doin it doesnt mean you have...   Dec 3 2004, 11:35 PM
teeners__15   QUOTE(xSonia @ Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM)well im u...   Dec 3 2004, 11:49 PM
fran_chin   im 14..i've had my first kiss when i was 10..b...   Dec 4 2004, 03:01 PM
angel_revelation   well i'm 13 and i havent had one yet... no guy...   Dec 4 2004, 03:21 PM
HikaruTakekawa   your sixteen your still young and so even if you h...   Dec 8 2004, 06:49 PM
177emories   of course thats normal... its okay some guy will f...   Dec 8 2004, 06:52 PM
jr0h   don't be so desperate for it. its actually rea...   Dec 8 2004, 07:33 PM
irock89   i haven't experienced the bofriend/having a re...   Dec 9 2004, 01:12 AM
domsweetie   Patience is the key. And, it's normal. I haven...   Dec 9 2004, 11:24 AM
tallaznkate   i HAVENT HAD ONE EiTHER N i`M 16. MAYBE i...   Dec 25 2004, 01:48 AM
Too Asian To DIE   i dun have one yet... and i dun care if i have one...   Dec 25 2004, 03:17 AM
lyin_in_wait   no your normal, boyfriends are over rated anyway.....   Dec 25 2004, 11:01 AM
xx angelbabu xx   hey, join the club! lol   Dec 25 2004, 11:08 AM
Simsima   I know ppl who didnt start dating until they where...   Dec 25 2004, 02:17 PM
Skyline Drive   same here. you're not alone ;] no rush , eit...   Dec 25 2004, 02:23 PM
Kathleen   Of course it's not normal, you freak of nature...   Dec 25 2004, 03:27 PM
kazukizaki   it's ok if u never had a bf. if u really want ...   Dec 25 2004, 03:57 PM
swe3ttemptasian   don't worry.. he's going to be on his way....   Dec 25 2004, 04:41 PM
AngelicEyz00   QUOTE(Kathleen @ Dec 25 2004, 12:27 PM)Of cou...   Dec 25 2004, 04:42 PM
Shattered_Hope   meh, I think you're fine. Sides, when you do h...   Dec 25 2004, 04:52 PM
silver rain   don't worry, that's normal. i got my first...   Dec 25 2004, 05:52 PM
anqie   Your time will come. Don't worry about it ..   Dec 25 2004, 05:53 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   don`t worry about it. sooner or later you will...   Dec 26 2004, 01:22 AM
aznxdreamer   meh..thats normal. i mean, if people can start dat...   Dec 26 2004, 02:42 AM
RandomHero   QUOTE(BoyCrazyGal @ Nov 29 2004, 10:11 PM)hah...   Dec 26 2004, 02:49 AM
kat29   Fine don't worry.   Dec 26 2004, 04:58 AM
flyonthewall4590   don't even worry about it, a lot of girls don...   Dec 26 2004, 10:22 AM
toodlepops.   yea..i sumtyms feel like this too. but i dont real...   Dec 27 2004, 04:13 AM
tears_of_blood   QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)...   Dec 27 2004, 06:20 AM
angel-roh   you know it's good that you didnt get any...ca...   Dec 27 2004, 07:57 AM
instantmusic   its pefectly normal. a lot of guys are timid to a...   Dec 27 2004, 09:33 AM
__Nessa   dunt worry, my best friend has dah same problem, b...   Dec 27 2004, 12:09 PM
goodeddie   you dont need one if you didnt find one...what? T_...   Dec 27 2004, 12:11 PM
not_your_average   Well, I'm 12, never had a bf. Only, half the g...   Dec 27 2004, 01:57 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   you're fine. love takes time. you don't re...   Dec 27 2004, 02:05 PM
gponce10104   ...your fine...i think. im 12 and i dont have a bo...   Dec 29 2004, 04:00 PM
MheiChan   of course it's normal. i, for one, doesn't...   Feb 6 2005, 09:12 AM
mzkandi   its normal girl so dont worry. i didnt have any bo...   Feb 6 2005, 09:27 AM
tears_of_blood   QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)...   Feb 6 2005, 09:33 AM
sweetdreamsx3   Just wait. I didn't have a bf until I was 15 a...   Feb 6 2005, 03:32 PM
Hiiatus   that;s normal BUT if you're 25 and still don...   Feb 6 2005, 05:09 PM
kimbutt   don't rush into anything, it's okay if you...   Feb 6 2005, 05:46 PM
royalfreshness   OMG I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH...   Feb 6 2005, 05:54 PM


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