16 and no boyfriend ever, is this normal? |
16 and no boyfriend ever, is this normal? |
Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM
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Hey girls. Well my problem is that I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend.
Yeah, it's not a big deal, but I really want one and I want to experience what everyone in the world except for me has gone through. No, I don't wanna lose my virginity or anything, and I'm for sure not gay or a lesbian, but I'm really picky. I'm asian (filipina, chinese) but I don't like asian guys. I basically just like white guys, to put it bluntly. I'm pretty decent looking, 4'10" (short), 105 lbs. I'm smart, and funny. But I'm alone. Any advice? |
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Dec 27 2004, 06:20 AM
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QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM) Hey girls. Well my problem is that I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend. Yeah, it's not a big deal, but I really want one and I want to experience what everyone in the world except for me has gone through. No, I don't wanna lose my virginity or anything, and I'm for sure not gay or a lesbian, but I'm really picky. I'm asian (filipina, chinese) but I don't like asian guys. I basically just like white guys, to put it bluntly. I'm pretty decent looking, 4'10" (short), 105 lbs. I'm smart, and funny. But I'm alone. Any advice? omg...i envy you sooo bad...i wish i never started dating...my first serious one was when i was 13...[well, im 14 now]...believe me, going through loads and loads of relationships that will often make you cry and worry is a living hell, if i were as lucky as you, i would really rather only have to date once and marry that one perfect guy....=] trust me |
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nightshadefire 16 and no boyfriend ever Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM
MusicalAngel I didn't get my first boyfriend and first kiss... Nov 30 2004, 12:29 AM
jambaJUICE Don't fret.
The longer you don't have a b... Nov 30 2004, 12:35 AM
MyVermilionPlague You're fine.
Don't rush. Nov 30 2004, 01:01 AM
BoyCrazyGal haha...dont worry!! i'm 15...n' i ... Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
stephinika don't worry about it. some of my friends are 1... Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
MyChemicalRomance. yeah theres nothing wrong with that there is no ... Nov 30 2004, 04:14 AM
yanners it doesnt matter. what's your rush anyways? ... Nov 30 2004, 05:36 AM
lilxroxy QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)... Nov 30 2004, 07:52 AM
angel-roh just dont go for abusive boyfriends, cause it can ... Nov 30 2004, 02:19 PM
thebandchick05 don't even worry! your normal!!... Nov 30 2004, 10:12 PM
xolilsmileeox nothing is normal. normal is how u assess urself. ... Nov 30 2004, 10:45 PM
teenprincess Your normal. I haven't had a bf, but of course... Nov 30 2004, 10:48 PM
mouse_3k its fine, just be patient. yah having a bf feels g... Nov 30 2004, 10:55 PM
jecissa you still have your whole life ahead of you. boyfr... Dec 1 2004, 03:30 AM
ApunBindaas You are normal. School is more important now. Yo... Dec 1 2004, 09:04 AM
Shortiiex it take patience and time.......but what do i know... Dec 1 2004, 04:24 PM
mirage education is first, after you get enough of that, ... Dec 1 2004, 05:13 PM
br0ken smile i didn't have my first boyfriend until i was 1... Dec 1 2004, 06:57 PM
dani41790 awww no worries. i know peoples who didnt start da... Dec 1 2004, 07:07 PM
cutiegrlchic trust me ur not the onlii one, dont feel left out,... Dec 1 2004, 07:35 PM
simplyannoy awwwwwwww don't worry! I don't have a ... Dec 1 2004, 08:10 PM
nightshadefire That helped, especially knowing other girls 16 and... Dec 1 2004, 10:34 PM
_confuzed_ of course =] just because you haven't had a bo... Dec 1 2004, 10:36 PM
sammi rules you ..=X i can't say anything about my experiences... Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM
waccoon QUOTE(Vaguely Aware @ Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM)..... Dec 1 2004, 11:36 PM
jesssicakung i can see where youre coming from but i say.. you ... Dec 2 2004, 12:14 AM
xSonia well im ugli n 13 n iwill nevr have a bf till i ge... Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM
babyxyelloe first, nobody neeeds a boyfriend, but just to let ... Dec 2 2004, 12:59 AM
Weird addiction no its not wierd...ull get one soon..dont worry ur... Dec 2 2004, 11:39 AM
sunissed14127 you dont have to freak...its normal. take your tim... Dec 2 2004, 12:40 PM
breakingawa0101 Wait for the perfect moment...and time don't w... Dec 2 2004, 05:01 PM
pullthecord_x Don't worry, you'll get someone soon. Just... Dec 2 2004, 07:08 PM
Spirited Away Teenage girls being sad about not having a boyfrie... Dec 2 2004, 07:13 PM
iheartsimba aww don't worry about it. i understand pickyne... Dec 2 2004, 07:22 PM
gothicvengeance I'm not an expert on this since I'm only 1... Dec 2 2004, 08:35 PM
DorkFahSho there are no asian guys at my school...well only f... Dec 2 2004, 09:50 PM
imadorkabledxd nothing wrong with it. i'm picky too =( haha ... Dec 3 2004, 03:45 PM
Cake. My brother is currently 16. He went out with this ... Dec 3 2004, 05:52 PM
laur3nw Haha. It's ok! Don't worry about it..... Dec 3 2004, 11:20 PM
feejayjay I'm in the same boat. My 16th birthday is in ... Dec 3 2004, 11:31 PM
jennypie just cause theyre all doin it doesnt mean you have... Dec 3 2004, 11:35 PM
teeners__15 QUOTE(xSonia @ Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM)well im u... Dec 3 2004, 11:49 PM
fran_chin im 14..i've had my first kiss when i was 10..b... Dec 4 2004, 03:01 PM
angel_revelation well i'm 13 and i havent had one yet... no guy... Dec 4 2004, 03:21 PM
HikaruTakekawa your sixteen your still young and so even if you h... Dec 8 2004, 06:49 PM
177emories of course thats normal... its okay some guy will f... Dec 8 2004, 06:52 PM
jr0h don't be so desperate for it. its actually rea... Dec 8 2004, 07:33 PM
irock89 i haven't experienced the bofriend/having a re... Dec 9 2004, 01:12 AM
domsweetie Patience is the key. And, it's normal. I haven... Dec 9 2004, 11:24 AM
tallaznkate i HAVENT HAD ONE EiTHER N i`M 16. MAYBE i... Dec 25 2004, 01:48 AM
Too Asian To DIE i dun have one yet... and i dun care if i have one... Dec 25 2004, 03:17 AM
lyin_in_wait no your normal, boyfriends are over rated anyway..... Dec 25 2004, 11:01 AM
xx angelbabu xx hey, join the club! lol Dec 25 2004, 11:08 AM
Simsima I know ppl who didnt start dating until they where... Dec 25 2004, 02:17 PM
Skyline Drive same here. you're not alone ;]
no rush , eit... Dec 25 2004, 02:23 PM
Kathleen Of course it's not normal, you freak of nature... Dec 25 2004, 03:27 PM
kazukizaki it's ok if u never had a bf. if u really want ... Dec 25 2004, 03:57 PM
swe3ttemptasian don't worry.. he's going to be on his way.... Dec 25 2004, 04:41 PM
AngelicEyz00 QUOTE(Kathleen @ Dec 25 2004, 12:27 PM)Of cou... Dec 25 2004, 04:42 PM
Shattered_Hope meh, I think you're fine. Sides, when you do h... Dec 25 2004, 04:52 PM
silver rain don't worry, that's normal. i got my first... Dec 25 2004, 05:52 PM
anqie Your time will come. Don't worry about it .. Dec 25 2004, 05:53 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY don`t worry about it. sooner or later you will... Dec 26 2004, 01:22 AM
aznxdreamer meh..thats normal. i mean, if people can start dat... Dec 26 2004, 02:42 AM
RandomHero QUOTE(BoyCrazyGal @ Nov 29 2004, 10:11 PM)hah... Dec 26 2004, 02:49 AM
kat29 Fine
don't worry. Dec 26 2004, 04:58 AM
flyonthewall4590 don't even worry about it, a lot of girls don... Dec 26 2004, 10:22 AM
toodlepops. yea..i sumtyms feel like this too. but i dont real... Dec 27 2004, 04:13 AM
angel-roh you know it's good that you didnt get any...ca... Dec 27 2004, 07:57 AM
instantmusic its pefectly normal.
a lot of guys are timid to a... Dec 27 2004, 09:33 AM
__Nessa dunt worry, my best friend has dah same problem, b... Dec 27 2004, 12:09 PM
goodeddie you dont need one if you didnt find one...what? T_... Dec 27 2004, 12:11 PM
not_your_average Well, I'm 12, never had a bf. Only, half the g... Dec 27 2004, 01:57 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE you're fine. love takes time. you don't re... Dec 27 2004, 02:05 PM
gponce10104 ...your fine...i think. im 12 and i dont have a bo... Dec 29 2004, 04:00 PM
MheiChan of course it's normal. i, for one, doesn't... Feb 6 2005, 09:12 AM
mzkandi its normal girl so dont worry. i didnt have any bo... Feb 6 2005, 09:27 AM
tears_of_blood QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)... Feb 6 2005, 09:33 AM
sweetdreamsx3 Just wait. I didn't have a bf until I was 15 a... Feb 6 2005, 03:32 PM
Hiiatus that;s normal BUT if you're 25 and still don... Feb 6 2005, 05:09 PM
kimbutt don't rush into anything, it's okay if you... Feb 6 2005, 05:46 PM
royalfreshness OMG I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH... Feb 6 2005, 05:54 PM![]() ![]() |