ADVICE, im confused Options

[angelbabystar]

I need some advice....
Im in love with my ex bf he lives in RI and im in PA. Ive known him for 4 years n im still inlove with him. He is movin down in October for College. We havent talked for awhile and like 2 months ago we just started talking again n it's everyday we talk n he keeps tellin me that he loves me and that all the feelings he had are still there that he still loves me and when he talks to me his heart drops. When he comes down here for college we talked about me goin back up with him to RI. I plan on going back with him n living up there he say's he wants me to cuz he loves me and he wants to be with me, but then he always says sumthin like if I dont have a gf when I come back down there and he likes like 5 other girls I dunno I feel like he's tryin to make me jelious or sumthin by talkin about other chicks. Everynight when we talk he always says that he loves me and he said he wants to ask me back out if nothing changes. Im sooo inlove with him and he know's it. I told him it's hard n i tried to get over him but it didnt work, n he was like I dont want you to get over me. I cant stop thinkin about him I dunno what to do. The guys ive gone out with since him n I broke up I find myself comparing them to him n he's all I think about. I dunno what to do??

[cmgchica717]

Humm...well same thing happened to me...kinda...I was with my ex for 5years, got engaged the whole deal..Then he left me. Left me with an apartment and a butt load of bills. I kept on wanting him back, he would still come over and tell me he loved me and then I wouldnt see him for like days. It really messed with me head.

I say that he just wants to mess with your head just like my ex did. He would tell me that he likes other girls and stuff it really hurt me. Then finally I started dating again and I got over him. It took awhile and it was sooo worth it. To think I was going to marry him ugh..i could have killed myself.

I know its hard to let someone go that you once loved and shared your secrets with but I think you should just let him go so you avoid a heartache at all costs

IMO

Good luck