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Xia
post Feb 14 2004, 03:07 AM
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because i'm different
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What do you guys think about online relationships? Do you think they can work? Or are the couple destined to break up. Every case is different, nothing is 100%. But let's make a nifty list of all the pros and cons.

(Also, it's because I'm sorta in one. Well, sorta. =P)
 
 
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angel-roh
post Apr 3 2004, 06:31 AM
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i'm susan
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heh....... thats how i met my bf, justin! lol.... well actually... i was online chattin' and i was jus bored...so i went to da relationship place... hehe i was like........heehee...4th grade...HAHAHA... newais i neba tried it that time..so i wanted to check it out...newais lols someone IMed me... heh i was in yahoo.... heh and i said hi... and he said hi... lols he said he read my profile..... so yeah..and he start to speak korean to me...and start on cussin' at me.......................... i was so mad at him...so i logged off... cus i was scared...lols newais da otha day he mailed me... it was like he was stalkin me... lols in the mail, he said "u are reallie pretty in ur profile pictures...do u have more?" i send him my baby pictures...lols...he said i was still beautiful...... ay... so i was online in yahoo messenger...and someone added me...so i checked it out...and it was him again...lols i was scared and start on cussin in korean at him...but he ignored...then we start to have a conversation..and start to get to kno each other...he made me laugh a lot... we were crackin and laughin' our heads off...lols.... then he gib me his cellular phone.. so i called him.... i was scared at first, but i wanted to try......... and i called him and he said hey and wassup? i kinda liked him... cus we were kept talkin for like everyday...hehe but like 2 months later... my computer had a virus...and we didnt talk online for like a week...and i couldnt call him...cus i qot trouble by my dad...he found out i was talkin to a 3 year older than me...lols...haha... nd' then... i went to my hip hop dance club... heh where there is a lot of korean ppls and japanese ppls...hehe newais.. we were doing our dance routine that our leader told us to do... and so yeah newais our leaders told us to find some ppls to join us...so we can have more ppls^^;; nd' i had these papers with me...to pass them on...to azn kids... heh newais justin didnt send me pictures of him... so i didnt kno how he looked like to let u kno.. nd'...heh i walked pass by this guy...who was kept starin at me....then i smiled... i dont kno y...then he was following me... i was so scared... i ran...then he ran... lols... i qot to my skool... cus i thot it wuld be safe... and he still caught me... i screamed... and he asks me "can i have the paper u have to? cus i reallie luv hiphop and i wana join too" lols i felt very stupid... then he winked at me... i was very shyyyyyyyyyy at that moment... and then he said, "hey sung min (my korean name)... i missed u".... i was shock... i mean i dont kno this guy...lols hehe that time i didnt kno who he was...then he said "it's my kangsu or u can say Justin park... we used to talk a lot...we were doing online relationship...remember?" i was shock...cus he was soooooooooooooo cute! lols... hehe but too bad i had a bf that time HAHAHAA jp... hes not my bf... but we act like one...lols cus we hold hands many times....keke... yeah justin had a huge crush on me for like a year...then stopped...then he start to went out with michella my homie! and my otha homie, amiee^^;; heehee... then my otha friend... sehee... heh.... and now...................... we are officially qoin' out hahaha............. im very happy with him..... we went out on february 11, 2004!!^^;; so i have known him for like 6 years!! wow heehee
 

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Xia   Online Relationships   Feb 14 2004, 03:07 AM
Faith   First of all, I have heard many success stories ou...   Feb 14 2004, 12:56 PM
Dr3aMeR   Just go to your school and find a guy...kindof sim...   Feb 14 2004, 02:13 PM
Xia   I never said I wanted a guy. I just want to know w...   Feb 14 2004, 03:49 PM
COLDasICE   I've gotta agree that all types of relationshi...   Feb 14 2004, 11:28 PM
xjjajeengx   wel... i dont really think online relationships is...   Feb 14 2004, 11:57 PM
xDREAMxgirlx   QUOTEwel... i dont really think online relationshi...   Feb 15 2004, 09:57 PM
conster   i dont like online relationships. its like wuts th...   Feb 15 2004, 10:16 PM
k00alah   dang.. almost all of you guys are against online r...   Feb 16 2004, 01:15 AM
ObliviousAsian1216   i had one ONCE...eventually i broke it off since i...   Feb 16 2004, 01:22 AM
applecyder   hmm.. I guess it depends on ppl.. I mean, yeah som...   Feb 16 2004, 04:30 AM
dzbemark   u should just fing 1 at your school   Feb 16 2004, 12:41 PM
xjjajeengx   yup. majority wins- NO TO ONLINE DATING!! ...   Feb 16 2004, 10:48 PM
Jordan Inc.   i might work for sum ppl and might not work for su...   Feb 16 2004, 11:06 PM
Alk3   Excuse me, but for the people who said "just ...   Feb 16 2004, 11:28 PM
shorty_oc   I had a friend who was once in an online relations...   Feb 16 2004, 11:52 PM
k00alah   yeah its just common sense.. if the person you tal...   Feb 17 2004, 01:19 AM
Baptismapyros   Just don’t have online relationships. Why? Well ...   Feb 18 2004, 03:10 AM
Dr3aMeR   For the girl who says you can't find one cause...   Feb 19 2004, 01:01 AM
Alk3   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 19 2004, 1:01 AM)For the ...   Feb 19 2004, 01:24 AM
Dr3aMeR   ?? It seems like you really want to give the onlin...   Feb 19 2004, 02:00 AM
Alk3   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 19 2004, 2:00 AM)?? It se...   Feb 19 2004, 02:11 AM
Dr3aMeR   I am happy that you are happy that you are single....   Feb 19 2004, 02:38 AM
Alk3   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 19 2004, 2:38 AM)I am hap...   Feb 19 2004, 11:35 AM
eunie03   QUOTE(Alk3 @ Feb 19 2004, 11:35 AM)Okay.. ...   Feb 19 2004, 02:48 PM
Desperado   i haven't put much thought into this but my 5 ...   Feb 19 2004, 05:24 PM
Dr3aMeR   ALK3... ...No not really, but thank for the effort...   Feb 19 2004, 08:40 PM
so0o_contagious   egh...people.. its just an opinion...u cant tell o...   Feb 19 2004, 10:15 PM
L00d   the only online relationships i have with girls, a...   Feb 19 2004, 10:18 PM
darkestdesire   QUOTEUmm ok lets see.  I almost got into one but i...   Feb 19 2004, 10:30 PM
jimmyjackiechan   i bet teh long distance trust will kill someone~   Feb 19 2004, 10:33 PM
Alk3   QUOTE(eunie03 @ Feb 19 2004, 2:48 PM)edit: wh...   Feb 19 2004, 11:11 PM
Dr3aMeR   alk3... i thought it was all good fun too but you...   Feb 19 2004, 11:20 PM
eunie03   Okay, so we all agree it's all in good fun. Le...   Feb 19 2004, 11:30 PM
Alk3   Oh.. Well I must've read it wrong then. lol.. ...   Feb 19 2004, 11:58 PM
Dr3aMeR   Numero uno... eunie...you are too cheery, happy, w...   Feb 20 2004, 12:56 AM
k00alah   moving on..   Feb 20 2004, 02:42 AM
Dr3aMeR   k00alah does not like me feel some reason...i can ...   Feb 20 2004, 03:25 AM
k00alah   haha nah im just trying to make peace..   Feb 20 2004, 03:31 AM
COLDasICE   Where is the love?   Feb 20 2004, 03:34 AM
k00alah   yes yes.. black eyed peas.. where is the love??   Feb 20 2004, 03:37 AM
Dr3aMeR   the love is gone   Feb 20 2004, 03:39 AM
dollii   I don't really believe in online-relationships...   Feb 20 2004, 02:55 PM
eunie03   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 12:56 AM)Numero ...   Feb 20 2004, 04:54 PM
omg_melface   Dr3aMeR ... I'm not sure why you're here t...   Feb 20 2004, 05:22 PM
Dr3aMeR   DAMN omg_melface... Shut up cause you misundersta...   Feb 20 2004, 09:23 PM
eunie03   QUOTEdon't ever msg me with the stuff you got ...   Feb 20 2004, 10:28 PM
so0o_contagious   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 9:23 PM)misunder...   Feb 20 2004, 10:50 PM
eunie03   Haha... I'm willing to let go whenever he does...   Feb 20 2004, 10:58 PM
so0o_contagious   lol..   Feb 20 2004, 11:00 PM
krnxswat   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 9:23 PM)DAMN om...   Feb 20 2004, 11:47 PM
conster   cant we all get along...   Feb 20 2004, 11:56 PM
so0o_contagious   yes.. get along!! lol.. please? ...   Feb 21 2004, 12:12 AM
so0o_contagious   QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 9:23 PM)DAMN om...   Feb 21 2004, 12:31 AM
omg_melface   You really shouldn't think so highly of yourse...   Feb 21 2004, 01:25 AM
so0o_contagious   haha.. i told you it was misunderstood! i told...   Feb 21 2004, 01:49 AM
GinaDaQueen   I think the mods took care of this situation graci...   Feb 21 2004, 09:18 AM
dasturbd   online relationships are not that far off from rea...   Feb 21 2004, 11:07 AM
dasturbd   did I mention I met my hubby on Xanga??   Feb 21 2004, 11:10 AM
Dr3aMeR   I love men!   Feb 21 2004, 04:26 PM
fragrance   just as long as u know what ur getting into...then...   Feb 22 2004, 11:43 PM
dat_da_busit_hai   i had about 2, they neevr work out... they always ...   Feb 22 2004, 11:44 PM
colorsarenice   i think the good thing about an online relationshi...   Feb 23 2004, 06:46 PM
aj637   i somewhat got out of my "online relationship...   Feb 26 2004, 09:41 PM
d1nonlyqty   its never going to work.   Feb 28 2004, 12:00 AM
S0ULd0UT   -_- im against that   Feb 28 2004, 06:33 PM
LatinaLady   i think online relationships are stupid.i dont lik...   Feb 28 2004, 07:29 PM
princess_tracy   just be careful   Mar 7 2004, 01:52 PM
axprincezz   whatever you decide you should be careful because ...   Mar 7 2004, 02:33 PM
phanaticalazn21   it doesn't last long   Mar 8 2004, 09:28 PM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   QUOTE(Xia @ Feb 14 2004, 3:07 AM)What do you ...   Mar 8 2004, 11:27 PM
thedilenquent   i have a friend who did online dating i guess she ...   Mar 8 2004, 11:30 PM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   QUOTE(thedilenquent @ Mar 8 2004, 11:30 PM)i ...   Mar 8 2004, 11:33 PM
tiffsezgrr   no no no   Mar 9 2004, 02:54 AM
SorMui   I disagree, the relationship is kind of 'vague...   Mar 9 2004, 03:19 AM
naughtyneshe   online realationshipz hardly eva work out u neva k...   Mar 18 2004, 11:14 AM
iloveyou07   i personally think online relationships are stupid   Mar 18 2004, 11:22 AM
conair   QUOTE(Xia @ Feb 14 2004, 2:07 AM)But let...   Mar 18 2004, 02:20 PM
psychoticangel   Hrm.. well.. I don't really have much time to ...   Mar 20 2004, 02:05 AM
ThePrincessofTKD   ive had two online relationships...(fer fun only) ...   Mar 21 2004, 08:08 PM
imalilpeanut23   i think it totally depends on what kind of people ...   Mar 21 2004, 09:04 PM
dani41790   i dont realli think online relationships would wor...   Apr 1 2004, 01:31 AM
Senorita_Babo   online relationships did work when it first starte...   Apr 1 2004, 06:38 PM
jatti   yeah i personally dislike online relationships...=...   Apr 2 2004, 10:51 AM
angel-roh   heh....... thats how i met my bf, justin! lol....   Apr 3 2004, 06:31 AM
Soleil   You can have one...but i wouldnt want one.   Nov 11 2005, 12:22 AM
verlorenrivets   Online relationships? They hardly exist, how can i...   Nov 11 2005, 12:29 AM
lilxl0ser   lols i can't make a list of pros and cons...bu...   Nov 11 2005, 02:24 AM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 11 2005, 2:24 AM)lols i...   Nov 12 2005, 10:42 PM
sw33tii_kagome   im in a online relationship.. and its a long dista...   Nov 12 2005, 12:54 PM
sw33tii_kagome   all true all true.. online relationships r also ki...   Nov 12 2005, 10:47 PM
iNyCxShoRT   I don't think it would work out at all. If you...   Nov 12 2005, 10:50 PM
hottiebheibi   bein' in a online relationship doesn't mea...   Nov 23 2005, 08:26 AM
__Nessa   oh my gahh.. i think they are awesome. becuase you...   Nov 23 2005, 03:51 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   Go for it. I've done it!. But guess what y...   Nov 23 2005, 10:02 PM
sw33tii_kagome   true true... oh yea.. i got dis problem.. how can ...   Nov 24 2005, 09:06 PM
ceara cecilyrose   Hehe Do what I did - fall for the guy and then mee...   Nov 24 2005, 10:14 PM
not_your_average   Well, it all really depends. Like everyone else sa...   Nov 25 2005, 03:46 PM
sheddingtears   online relationships + long distance = doesn't...   Dec 11 2005, 02:25 AM
Just_Dream   I think they can work. I mean, it just trully come...   Dec 11 2005, 02:26 AM


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