sex, i need advice badly |
 Dec 3 2004, 08:22 PM
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Well my bf and I are planning on doing it but he is freaking out because of protection and shit like that.
Whats the best type of protection to use? and also...What is some good advice on this subject? |
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Dec 15 2004, 02:13 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
I think she's got all the advice she needs about what to use and what to do and what not. And yet we've over looked a more concerned question, "should I do it?"
It seems as if the term "love" and "sex" have something in relativity here. It works together for assurance. So if you are in doubt, the answer is an immediate NO. I've heard of couples having bad sex the first time, and some have good sex. This is due to lack of emotions, or lack of knowledge for this matter. Your bf had a good conscious, he's got a right mind. what he can do is seek for more information, do a research if you have to. Until he's to the point of certainty. Usually its forbidden for you to go thru it at this age, but its your life. So ONLY go for it when you're both are ready. And by the apparent doubt, its telling me that you should wait. Trust me, wait til the time is right. Its worth the experience later on. |
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theoneandonly_SC sex Dec 3 2004, 08:22 PM
yummy_delight go on the pill. and get him some condoms. =] Dec 3 2004, 08:39 PM ryfitaDF the best protection is abstinance.
my best advice... Dec 3 2004, 08:53 PM
giggl3s QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Dec 3 2004, 8:53 PM)the best... Jan 11 2005, 02:08 AM
lilxl0ser QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Dec 3 2004, 8:53 PM)the best... Jan 14 2005, 05:18 PM wind&fire spermicide Dec 3 2004, 08:57 PM sexxc_babyy If your not willing to face the consequences then ... Dec 3 2004, 08:59 PM br0ken smile condoms. be safe and follow your heart. don... Dec 3 2004, 09:34 PM _sarcastic_ i say, dont do it if your not ready to Dec 3 2004, 09:52 PM iheartsimba only do it if your ready..but i don't think pr... Dec 3 2004, 09:54 PM xsilent_kidx ok first,if you feel his body tighten up like inst... Dec 3 2004, 10:23 PM electric shock ^ if condoms have small holes, and you checked it,... Dec 3 2004, 10:50 PM YoGrandpaIsFine QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 3 2004, 10:50 PM)^ ... Jan 11 2005, 01:57 AM xsilent_kidx therre are no holes its juust the differance in th... Dec 3 2004, 10:53 PM teeners__15 TROJAN!!!! =P Dec 3 2004, 11:29 PM krnxswat Use a balloon. Dec 4 2004, 01:44 AM islandgirl4eva QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 4 2004, 1:44 AM)Use a ba... Jan 13 2005, 03:04 AM alone in the world A-B-S-T-I-N-E-N-C-E
but i heard... Dec 4 2004, 02:06 AM AngelicEyz00 use a condom with spermicide... those trojan ones.... Dec 4 2004, 02:08 AM sexymixelix QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Dec 4 2004, 1:08 AM)use ... Jan 19 2005, 01:30 AM broken_lance QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Dec 3 2004, 8:53 PM)my best ... Dec 4 2004, 09:50 AM christiee_nax its her own descision if she wants to do it or not... Dec 4 2004, 12:36 PM xj_liana_tx condoms don't protect against the 10000 kinds ... Dec 4 2004, 01:55 PM th5418 QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 4 2004, 1:55 PM)condo... Jan 15 2005, 08:54 PM xheavenzcentzx wait...how OLD are you?? Dec 4 2004, 03:50 PM Cake. Go on the pill,
get some trojan man condoms
Make s... Dec 4 2004, 05:01 PM sunissed14127 ^exactly what i was about 2 say lol Dec 4 2004, 05:43 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 use a condom with spermicide . It kills the sperm.... Dec 4 2004, 06:53 PM azn_r4pf4n QUOTE(xheavenzcentzx @ Dec 4 2004, 12:50 PM) ... Dec 4 2004, 10:39 PM ComradeRed QUOTE(theoneandonly_SC @ Dec 3 2004, 8:22 PM)... Dec 4 2004, 10:44 PM mouse_3k QUOTEWell my bf and I are planning on doing it but... Dec 5 2004, 11:47 AM blowpops69 whoa how old are you.
get the pills, the condoms,... Dec 5 2004, 11:57 AM DaTru KataLYST if he's questioning it, then you guysshouldn... Dec 5 2004, 12:09 PM airam QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Dec 4 2004, 6:53 PM)use a... Dec 5 2004, 12:11 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 QUOTE(airam @ Dec 5 2004, 9:11 AM)i actually ... Dec 5 2004, 12:50 PM audory are you in middle school?!
first of all, be s... Dec 5 2004, 12:53 PM azn_r4pf4n QUOTE(airam @ Dec 5 2004, 9:11 AM)try reading... Dec 9 2004, 11:57 PM misoka QUOTE(broken_lance @ Dec 4 2004, 9:50 AM)righ... Dec 10 2004, 12:20 AM yanners condoms, the pill, spermicide. yeah..but if you or... Dec 10 2004, 07:04 AM xtrashx QUOTEuse a condom with spermicide... those trojan ... Dec 10 2004, 07:12 AM xd0rkette condoms? lol. don't do it if you're not re... Dec 10 2004, 04:25 PM simplyannoy It sounds to me that your boyfriend is not ready. ... Dec 10 2004, 11:13 PM ApocalypseAelis If you're unsure about sex, you're not rea... Dec 10 2004, 11:56 PM leogirl73089 Don't do it!!! u can get std! ... Dec 11 2004, 01:52 PM TrueLoveWaits one lil thing. if's he's freaking out, its... Dec 13 2004, 09:55 PM emmalie QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Dec 4 2004, 2:08 AM)use ... Dec 13 2004, 09:58 PM alone in the world i heard & learned that latex condoms are good?... Dec 13 2004, 10:37 PM my world omg DO NOT DO IT.. i know people have dif opinions... Dec 13 2004, 10:46 PM broken_lance QUOTE(misoka @ Dec 10 2004, 12:20 AM)I agree ... Dec 14 2004, 08:43 AM R|_|f|_|5 Well lets see ;D condom pill and fire it up bab... Dec 14 2004, 04:45 PM jesska17 hm, i say abstinence ..there are tons of stds that... Dec 14 2004, 05:26 PM aznxdreamer dont think your ready to have sex if you dont even... Dec 14 2004, 06:25 PM mouse_3k QUOTEsex is pointless.
no it isnt..without it, we... Dec 14 2004, 06:31 PM Spirited Away QUOTEsex is pointless.
QUOTE(mouse_3k ... Jan 11 2005, 11:05 AM KRicoBoriqua doesnt sound like your ready if hes scared and you... Dec 14 2004, 10:04 PM waccoon Advice?
Don't do it. He'll probably end u... Jan 11 2005, 03:57 AM broken_lance QUOTE(waccoon @ Jan 11 2005, 3:57 AM)Advice? ... Jan 11 2005, 08:56 AM JoeLII you say BOTH of you are planning on doing it...so,... Jan 11 2005, 08:58 AM 177emories use comdoms. if ur worried don't do it. Jan 11 2005, 01:12 PM Frankie the best kind of pretection is to not have sex at ... Jan 11 2005, 06:29 PM Chii QUOTE(xheavenzcentzx @ Dec 4 2004, 3:50 PM) w... Jan 11 2005, 11:25 PM giggl3s QUOTE(chii @ Jan 11 2005, 11:25 PM)why does i... Jan 12 2005, 01:29 AM pikimoo QUOTE(giggl3s @ Jan 11 2005, 10:29 PM)good lo... Jan 12 2005, 09:26 PM giggl3s QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jan 12 2005, 9:26 PM)I don... Jan 13 2005, 01:22 AM gponce10104 well how old are you? if he is not ready then dont... Jan 12 2005, 05:23 PM [X]poised make sure he doesn't have AIDS or any other vi... Jan 12 2005, 09:12 PM Rachel is love ~condoms-trojan are the best
~birth control-really... Jan 12 2005, 09:33 PM WhiteLotus* ABSTINENCE.
If you don't listen to that, I s... Jan 13 2005, 01:15 AM AngelicEyz00 The point is that she said trojans weren't rel... Jan 13 2005, 02:38 AM Spirited Away QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jan 13 2005, 2:38 AM)And... Jan 16 2005, 10:25 PM burnoveride my vote is dont do it.. if he loves you enough and... Jan 13 2005, 03:22 AM xsweetxcandyx well if you really want to do it... pill and condo... Jan 13 2005, 06:52 PM im2tall sex is over-rated... Jan 14 2005, 04:57 PM Rachel is love sex does NOT equal kids if you use protection corr... Jan 15 2005, 08:41 PM honorguard Trojan Man.
I don't know, it's just a sug... Jan 15 2005, 11:12 PM mz anita xP condoms and well to prevent from getting pregant, ... Jan 16 2005, 12:17 PM asiu1990 QUOTE(mz anita xP @ Jan 16 2005, 9:17 AM)cond... Jan 17 2005, 01:26 AM broken_lance you guys know alot!!!! Jan 16 2005, 12:40 PM Shortiiex ususally girls freak out....use pills and condoms Jan 16 2005, 07:58 PM Brina #1 protection againts babies, STD and HIV/AIDS?
... Jan 16 2005, 09:21 PM th5418 #1 protection againts babies, STD and HIV/AIDS?
... Jan 17 2005, 12:29 AM iiiiiiiYON NO SEX PLS =P AGAiNST THE BiBLE... WAiT TiL U MARR... Jan 17 2005, 12:44 AM th5418 QUOTE(iiiiiiiYON @ Jan 17 2005, 12:44 AM)NO S... Jan 17 2005, 12:53 AM captured_serenity just don't do it. keep it real by not doing it... Jan 17 2005, 05:02 AM Me= Sex-C Love x2 i could have sworn I answered a question like this... Jan 18 2005, 11:03 PM bad_girl *looks at u like u're crazy* protection? condo... Jan 19 2005, 05:29 AM travnewmatic broken_lance.... youre an up tight wench
im not ... Jan 19 2005, 03:18 PM i3reakah_X3 1) definitely use a condom
2) dont have sex..
it... Jan 21 2005, 05:07 PM lidoaznboi89 if you guys really love each other, then WAIT, but... Jan 27 2005, 12:43 AM Programmer K. most people are avoiding the subject here. If y... Jan 27 2005, 08:30 AM shewasradiant if you had to get our opinions on what you should ... Jan 28 2005, 12:36 AM princess2113 don't do it...if ur not ready to raise kid(s) ... Jan 29 2005, 10:34 AM mishyerr Pill, condom.
I would say don't do it, unless... Jan 29 2005, 12:48 PM |
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