argh...boy troubles., help!? Options

[xoHUGSnKISSESxo]

ok, so there' s this guy that likes me, but i reALLY don't like him. i've told him several times but he still won't stop giving me gifts, money, etc. on aim, just a couple of minutes ago, he said he was going to give me a gift because he had nothing to lose. then in his profile he wrote that everyone pissed him off except me. what do i do?
i told him that he seriously DIDN"T have to give me a present, but he said that he didn't spend any $$ on it...and it wasn't hand made.
> he just won't get over me no matter HOW many times i tell him i either, 1) don't like him, or 2) don't really need that present.

it makes me uncomftorble with him still hanging on to me because i can't stop him from liking me. actually, i tried to get him to hate me by writing a quite mean xanga entry. that didn't work. i just CAN'T get him to stop liking me.

[AsianUniQ]

You'd really should try a psychological approach. Accept his gifts, in fact, next time even suggest what you wanted. Let him do all the nice things for you, even when you asked. Until he's annoyed adn tired of doing things for you. He'll eventually back off. See when sometimes words aren't enough. U'd just have to MAKE him understand, so when he feels lousy and stupid for doing all that for you, he'll understand. And thats when you have a sit next to him and explain it to him. Tell him that you only want to be freinds in the first place. So out of all the things he's given you, tell him that freindship is the only thing you'd want.