argh...boy troubles., help!? |
 Dec 13 2004, 09:30 PM
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ok, so there' s this guy that likes me, but i reALLY don't like him. i've told him several times but he still won't stop giving me gifts, money, etc. on aim, just a couple of minutes ago, he said he was going to give me a gift because he had nothing to lose. then in his profile he wrote that everyone pissed him off except me. what do i do?
i told him that he seriously DIDN"T have to give me a present, but he said that he didn't spend any $$ on it...and it wasn't hand made. > he just won't get over me no matter HOW many times i tell him i either, 1) don't like him, or 2) don't really need that present. it makes me uncomftorble with him still hanging on to me because i can't stop him from liking me. actually, i tried to get him to hate me by writing a quite mean xanga entry. that didn't work. i just CAN'T get him to stop liking me. |
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Dec 15 2004, 12:21 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
Well, don't be a complete a-hole to him. Be polite to him, but don't lead him on. He has to know that you don't like him. Accept his gift. Be flattered that he feels this way towards you. The answer "i don't wanna answer' to his question, is not a good one. You should have said no. "I don't wanna answer" can be interpreted as a Yes, and most times that is the case. So yeah..don't lead him on, and be nice to him, don't break his heart into 4095834607340703408356057 pieces. It scars.
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xoHUGSnKISSESxo argh...boy troubles. Dec 13 2004, 09:30 PM
xoHUGSnKISSESxo i need help...! Dec 13 2004, 09:31 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE well, you can't really make a person stop liki... Dec 13 2004, 09:33 PM alli wow thats a tuffie..lol umm just speak to him by u... Dec 13 2004, 09:35 PM BabiiTer919 if you dont mind...just be a total a$$ t... Dec 13 2004, 09:36 PM xcaitlinx just ignore him and never talk to him if hes reall... Dec 13 2004, 09:36 PM xoHUGSnKISSESxo well actually i've done that several times....... Dec 13 2004, 09:37 PM xoHUGSnKISSESxo i don't think i should block him... that might... Dec 13 2004, 09:41 PM pympgangsta4real If he doesn't stop after you telling him, it... Dec 13 2004, 09:42 PM remini seems like you cant stop this guy, even if you be ... Dec 13 2004, 09:43 PM kaka1204 ooooo it happened to mee too...
well here'z w... Dec 13 2004, 10:31 PM Just_Dream QUOTE(xoHUGSnKISSESxo @ Dec 13 2004, 10:30 PM... Dec 14 2004, 12:09 AM jennypie QUOTE(xoHUGSnKISSESxo @ Dec 13 2004, 9:37 PM)... Dec 14 2004, 12:16 AM AzNpRiDe [COLOR=orange]that happened to me once....this is ... Dec 14 2004, 10:35 PM AsianUniQ You'd really should try a psychological approa... Dec 15 2004, 01:33 AM sheddingtears wow that's hard. let him down nicely. say that... Dec 19 2004, 12:45 AM Shortiiex aww..that is sweet of him
you should talk to him f... Dec 19 2004, 10:21 AM WishfullDreamer man...that sounds frustrating! tell him how... Dec 20 2004, 10:14 PM Shattered_Hope I think this has become an obsession...he might be... Dec 22 2004, 03:09 PM tungtwista ahah the guys sounds like a total stalker and obse... Dec 22 2004, 03:13 PM tooeffingcrazy BRUTAL honesty Tell him to go away straight to h... Dec 22 2004, 04:42 PM
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