If you were offended/hurt/harassed/abused........., by someone you love... |
 Dec 7 2004, 07:08 PM
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if you were like hurt seriously (abused/harassed...) by someone you love, say like your parents, would do do anything, would you report them?? I mean, it's a really big emotional conflict because you love them and you don't want them to get hurt, but they keep hurting you and you've got no choice... it's just a scenario but think about it, if it happens to you, what would you have done?? send them to jail means you don't see them anymore and have to know that they are suffering, which might not be good either since you love them very much. But on the other hand, if you don't do anything, YOU will get hurt more and more and have to carry a burden....
i would've broke down and cry.. i wouldn't know what to do.. i mean, i can't stand sending them to jail nor do i want to keep suffering. |
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Dec 14 2004, 02:30 PM
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QUOTE(BoogythatBe @ Dec 14 2004, 2:47 AM) Sad to say, one of my close homegirls was sexually harassed by her own grandfather. Her own grandfather. Do you know how badly it broke my heart when I had to answer the phonecall to hear her voice wavering because she didn't know what to do? And she hid it for months and never said anything about it although I told her to, but I guess one night she got into an argument with her aunt (which whom she was living with at the time as well) and her aunt ended up calling me to see if it was true. I gave her my side and told her that I believed her (homegirl) to the fullest extent because she's not one to pull stupid sh!t like that. Of course the grandfather denied it and the family fell apart and blamed her for it and it killed me. Months passed by and she ended up moving to NJ to get away from him but she's back now and it seems her uncle called her up one night and started to bring it up much to her saying she didn't want to talk about it and told her that she was going to hell because she was lying about it. WTF kind of sh!t is that? I was so heated when I heard that, but whatever. It's over and done with for now and that's all that matters to me, it's just... unbelievable the things that people pull.  it is terrible, do you think that she would want to call the cops on her own grandfather? i mean, calling the cops is one thing, getting humiliated is another... |
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xj_liana_tx If you were offended/hurt/harassed/abused......... Dec 7 2004, 07:08 PM
DaTru KataLYST if it happens continuously, you must call the poli... Dec 7 2004, 08:21 PM sunissed14127 i would call the cops on them even if i love them,... Dec 7 2004, 08:24 PM TheStartingLine if it would ever happen, i would run yelling rape ... Dec 7 2004, 08:32 PM x_angawhomps Are you talking abuse ? As in child abuse? I don... Dec 7 2004, 08:33 PM thaichic192 It was weird, my parents always called it "di... Dec 7 2004, 10:14 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(thaichic192 @ Dec 7 2004, 10:14 PM) It... Dec 7 2004, 10:15 PM x_angawhomps QUOTE(thaichic192 @ Dec 7 2004, 7:14 PM)... Dec 8 2004, 01:19 AM dreamerOi what id want to do would be call the cops or an el... Dec 8 2004, 03:14 AM xj_liana_tx yeah my parents used to *disciplin* me too, and my... Dec 8 2004, 07:11 PM jr0h i'd kick his a s s Dec 8 2004, 07:12 PM Mireh i'd hurt them back/ publicly embarrass them. ;... Dec 8 2004, 07:20 PM Heathasm its not freaking easy to report a family member fo... Dec 8 2004, 07:24 PM you suck my mom smacks me around once in a while but thats ... Dec 8 2004, 07:56 PM Jealousy I would move out or away from the person if I coul... Dec 9 2004, 08:33 AM xquizit i'll tell u one thing, i wouldn't call the... Dec 9 2004, 09:07 AM swtpumkinpie if it was a significant other, i'd maybe want ... Dec 9 2004, 11:52 AM broken_lance l came from a broken family. when my mother died, ... Dec 10 2004, 10:25 AM Xxswiftxx I dunno i would break down becasue this is happen ... Dec 10 2004, 01:50 PM x Wolf Tearz x My dad raped me when I was little but I never told... Dec 11 2004, 04:04 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(x Wolf Tearz x @ Dec 11 2004, 4:04 PM)M... Dec 11 2004, 04:49 PM Ladii_D1809 i couldn't call the police, i'm the type o... Dec 11 2004, 04:49 PM smthngcrprategrl34 my family is so screwed up! a majority of the ... Dec 11 2004, 04:52 PM Ange1sillusion i'm a very sensitive person, and if something ... Dec 12 2004, 12:12 AM MyVermilionPlague -Possibility of commiting suicide.
I'd probabl... Dec 12 2004, 12:57 AM x Wolf Tearz x QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 11 2004, 3:49 PM)omg ... Dec 12 2004, 02:45 PM Just_Dream My dad has hit me so many times when I was young..... Dec 12 2004, 03:20 PM justsomeboi QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Dec 12 2004, 3:20 PM)My da... Dec 12 2004, 08:30 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(justsomeboi @ Dec 12 2004, 8:30 PM)In t... Dec 13 2004, 07:13 PM moralsdecayaway man... this topic brings back memories...
i remem... Dec 13 2004, 07:46 PM moralsdecayaway oh i had a lot of typos in there.. but its Killeen... Dec 13 2004, 07:48 PM xj_liana_tx ^^man... do you hate both of your parents?? still?... Dec 13 2004, 07:50 PM moralsdecayaway yeah pretty much.. i do alright in school.. i faie... Dec 13 2004, 08:03 PM tungtwista turn them in. you dont deserve to be constantly ab... Dec 13 2004, 08:08 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(moralsdecayaway @ Dec 13 2004, 8:03 PM)... Dec 13 2004, 08:10 PM xj_liana_tx QUOTE(tungtwista @ Dec 13 2004, 8:08 PM)turn ... Dec 13 2004, 08:10 PM moralsdecayaway yeah.. i wanna get far away...
but right now the ... Dec 13 2004, 08:21 PM BoogythatBe Sad to say, one of my close homegirls was sexually... Dec 14 2004, 02:47 AM x_angawhomps QUOTE(BoogythatBe @ Dec 13 2004, 11:47 PM)Sad... Dec 14 2004, 03:11 AM
audory QUOTE(broken_lance @ Dec 10 2004, 10:25 AM)l ... Dec 14 2004, 07:18 PM |
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