argh...boy troubles., help!? Options

[xoHUGSnKISSESxo]

ok, so there' s this guy that likes me, but i reALLY don't like him. i've told him several times but he still won't stop giving me gifts, money, etc. on aim, just a couple of minutes ago, he said he was going to give me a gift because he had nothing to lose. then in his profile he wrote that everyone pissed him off except me. what do i do?
i told him that he seriously DIDN"T have to give me a present, but he said that he didn't spend any $$ on it...and it wasn't hand made.
> he just won't get over me no matter HOW many times i tell him i either, 1) don't like him, or 2) don't really need that present.

it makes me uncomftorble with him still hanging on to me because i can't stop him from liking me. actually, i tried to get him to hate me by writing a quite mean xanga entry. that didn't work. i just CAN'T get him to stop liking me.

[Just_Dream]

ok, so there' s this guy that likes me, but i reALLY don't like him. i've told him several times but he still won't stop giving me gifts, money, etc. on aim, just a couple of minutes ago, he said he was going to give me a gift because he had nothing to lose. then in his profile he wrote that everyone pissed him off except me. what do i do?
i told him that he seriously DIDN"T have to give me a present, but he said that he didn't spend any $$ on it...and it wasn't hand made.
> he just won't get over me no matter HOW many times i tell him i either, 1) don't like him, or 2) don't really need that present.

it makes me uncomftorble with him still hanging on to me because i can't stop him from liking me. actually, i tried to get him to hate me by writing a quite mean xanga entry. that didn't work. i just CAN'T get him to stop liking me.

First of all, DON'T DOUBLE POST.

Second of all, I know how you feel. I had a guy who was somewhat obsessed with me throughout middle school... I even made him cry. You know, I feel so bad about it because that guy was pretyt nice and whatnot, but I didn't give him a chance. Maybe you should give THAT guy that lieks you, a chance. Why don't you like him? At least get to know him...

But anyway, tell him politely that you just want to be friends. So what if he still likes you? I told that guy who liked me alot (almost 3 years... It was scary) that I didn't like him back... And you know, he was pretty sad and devastated.. he still even got me a valentine's day gift in 8th grade. He never really asked-asked me out, but even so, he still liked me. I never really knew why he liked me so much, but I couldn't stop him from liking me. And even when I was mean to him, it would hurt him, but it didn't make the situation any better.

Overtime, he'll ahve to accept that he might never have a chance with you. But be careful around him in cause you feel insecure around him. Have a friend with you always. Tell him to find another girl in which to give the gift to, someone that will appreciate it more than you will. If he doesn't listen, MAKE him listen.