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argh...boy troubles., help!?
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post Dec 13 2004, 09:30 PM
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ok, so there' s this guy that likes me, but i reALLY don't like him. i've told him several times but he still won't stop giving me gifts, money, etc. on aim, just a couple of minutes ago, he said he was going to give me a gift because he had nothing to lose. then in his profile he wrote that everyone pissed him off except me. what do i do?
i told him that he seriously DIDN"T have to give me a present, but he said that he didn't spend any $$ on it...and it wasn't hand made.
> he just won't get over me no matter HOW many times i tell him i either, 1) don't like him, or 2) don't really need that present.

it makes me uncomftorble with him still hanging on to me because i can't stop him from liking me. actually, i tried to get him to hate me by writing a quite mean xanga entry. that didn't work. i just CAN'T get him to stop liking me.
 
 
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post Dec 13 2004, 09:37 PM
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well actually i've done that several times....
i sent him emails, talked to him in person, IM'ed him...and he still won't stop. and he assumes a lot of things which is one of the reasons i don't like him, I.E: my friend frankie was talking to r.k. and then r.k. said, " ask (me) if she still likes mee." i said to frankie that i couldn't realy answer that. so frankie said to r.k." she doesn't wanna answer.""

so r.k . assumed that i still liked him

THEN i cleared that part up when i was talking to him and he said he understood. now that we're "friends" he STILL sends me notes saying, " wanna go to winter corral together?" or "do you think we can go to ben and jerry's today? just the two of us?"


first of all , he KNOWS that i'm going to the corral w/ my friends . not him. second, he still won't leave me alone:

bl4zeD bOi 4 U: im gonna get you a christmas present
b4nAnna93: umm...wait, why?
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: frankie told you like last week
b4nAnna93: he did...?
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: something about me not fully getting over you
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: remember
b4nAnna93: oh
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: i guess, its not something that big
b4nAnna93: errr...well i can't get you anything...
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: its ok
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: dont worry
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: dont put that in ur head that you have to give me something, it will be just an extra weight
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: when it doesnt matter to me
b4nAnna93: ok then
b4nAnna93: but still...i donno. you seriously don't have to get me a gift.
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: its ok, i have nothing to lose
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: it didnt cost me any money
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: altho, i didnt make it
b4nAnna93: okee
bl4zeD bOi 4 U: look at my profile, and highlight the whole thing
b4nAnna93: ic......
bl4zeD bOi 4 U is away at 6:28:52 PM.
 

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xoHUGSnKISSESxo   argh...boy troubles.   Dec 13 2004, 09:30 PM
xoHUGSnKISSESxo   i need help...!   Dec 13 2004, 09:31 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   well, you can't really make a person stop liki...   Dec 13 2004, 09:33 PM
alli   wow thats a tuffie..lol umm just speak to him by u...   Dec 13 2004, 09:35 PM
BabiiTer919   if you dont mind...just be a total a$$ t...   Dec 13 2004, 09:36 PM
xcaitlinx   just ignore him and never talk to him if hes reall...   Dec 13 2004, 09:36 PM
xoHUGSnKISSESxo   well actually i've done that several times.......   Dec 13 2004, 09:37 PM
xoHUGSnKISSESxo   i don't think i should block him... that might...   Dec 13 2004, 09:41 PM
pympgangsta4real   If he doesn't stop after you telling him, it...   Dec 13 2004, 09:42 PM
remini   seems like you cant stop this guy, even if you be ...   Dec 13 2004, 09:43 PM
kaka1204   ooooo it happened to mee too... well here'z w...   Dec 13 2004, 10:31 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(xoHUGSnKISSESxo @ Dec 13 2004, 10:30 PM...   Dec 14 2004, 12:09 AM
jennypie   QUOTE(xoHUGSnKISSESxo @ Dec 13 2004, 9:37 PM)...   Dec 14 2004, 12:16 AM
AzNpRiDe   [COLOR=orange]that happened to me once....this is ...   Dec 14 2004, 10:35 PM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   Well, don't be a complete a-hole to him. Be p...   Dec 15 2004, 12:21 AM
AsianUniQ   You'd really should try a psychological approa...   Dec 15 2004, 01:33 AM
sheddingtears   wow that's hard. let him down nicely. say that...   Dec 19 2004, 12:45 AM
Shortiiex   aww..that is sweet of him you should talk to him f...   Dec 19 2004, 10:21 AM
WishfullDreamer   man...that sounds frustrating! tell him how...   Dec 20 2004, 10:14 PM
Shattered_Hope   I think this has become an obsession...he might be...   Dec 22 2004, 03:09 PM
tungtwista   ahah the guys sounds like a total stalker and obse...   Dec 22 2004, 03:13 PM
tooeffingcrazy   BRUTAL honesty Tell him to go away straight to h...   Dec 22 2004, 04:42 PM
gponce10104   act diffrent around such as mean, ignoring and stu...   Jan 6 2005, 09:28 PM


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