If you were offended/hurt/harassed/abused........., by someone you love... Options

[xj_liana_tx]

if you were like hurt seriously (abused/harassed...) by someone you love, say like your parents, would do do anything, would you report them?? I mean, it's a really big emotional conflict because you love them and you don't want them to get hurt, but they keep hurting you and you've got no choice... it's just a scenario but think about it, if it happens to you, what would you have done?? send them to jail means you don't see them anymore and have to know that they are suffering, which might not be good either since you love them very much. But on the other hand, if you don't do anything, YOU will get hurt more and more and have to carry a burden....
i would've broke down and cry.. i wouldn't know what to do.. i mean, i can't stand sending them to jail nor do i want to keep suffering.

[moralsdecayaway]

man... this topic brings back memories...

i remember when i was young.. my mom would come pick me up from school.. and shed always find out i had a "yellow" face.. back in the days of colors to represent behavior.. and yellow was only a warning.. so called.. and since i hadnt had a perfect day.. which was almost everyday.. shed race home.. throw me in the bathroom.. and make me wait about 10 minutes.. then come in with a spoon or a wooden stick or anything besides her hand and make me get on my knees.. and hold out my hands.. shed hit my hands as hard as she could.. and if i cried shed say shed smack me in the face.. i didnt believe her until one of the times i screamed because the wooden rice cooker spoon thingy broke off into my hand.. but yeah.. than she proceeded to smack me in the face with the spoon until i stopped shouting and crying.. (how that works i dont know) but anyway yeah.. i remember vividly of those days.. and my dad.. he worked in gatesville (texas) i live in killen.. have for the past 16 years of my 17 year life.. and so he never could really do anything.. but i remember i used to get "spanked" everyday from 1st grade to about the beginning of 6th grade.. but the thing i remember most.. as one day he was home.. and she went on with her usual "spanking" and he did nothing to stop her.. i know he knew it was wrong.. because hed just stay in the room.. but there was only one time he actually "saved" me because he was home and she was busy that day with her home business.. and so she told him to spank me.. so he took me in the room and took off his belt.. and then he spanekd me lightly.. liek he felt bad for me.. of course that sounds nice.. but i ended up hating him because he never told her to stop hitting me when he was home.. hed just hide.. and believe me.. he is one big man.. so if he wanted her to stop.. he had nothing to be scared about.. but anyway.. now what makes me mad.. is my mom will tell me i have no respect for her since i do bad in school.. (when she used to "spank" me i was making straight a's) but shed always spank me to the point of bruising or some crazy stuff like that.. i dont know.. the way i see it.. is either.. i shouldnt respect her because of that.. or i respect her to the fullest.. because i never reported her nor hit her back as many times as i wanted to.. but yeah.. those were horrible days.. she stopped around 6th grade.. cuz i guess she just was too old.. she was about 48 at the time.. i think cuz shes 54 now.. but yeah.. i remember those days.. and i guess thats what has formed me into the pessimistic low self esteem no hopes in life person i am today.. but yeah thats my story.. even if it may sounds fake or something.. i put it on my life all of that happened.. none of it is made up.. i hated those days.. well yeah.. theres my post on this topic.. later