long distance relationships, ...? |
 Aug 19 2004, 01:41 PM
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 Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830  |
wondering.... my girlfriend is moving back to the mid-west while im staying out in md i mean we have a good relationship but is it worth to have a long distance relationship and do they really last?
What do you guys think about long distance relationships? Have you been in any? |
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Dec 13 2004, 04:11 AM
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 Pfft, your mom. Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,358 |
I'm in a long distance relationship. And I'm going to tell you this- It can work but it's HARD. I'm not going to sugar coat it for you and tell you that it's easy, because it isn't. As any human, I have the desire to see him and hold him and I simply can't for the fact of the distance. He's in California, I'm in Florida. Yeah, it's not easy. But next to caring for the person deeply, these are the three things that you essentially need-
One: Trust. If you don't have this, don't bother with it then. If you're going to be getting suspicious of every little thing he does (keeping in mind that he does have a life of his own that doesn't revolve around you 24/7) and reading too deep into little things... it'll go to hell in a hand basket in the span of a second. If he says that he has deep feelings for you and you know in your heart he means it, that's all you need to get you through until you get the chance to be with him. Two: Respect. Three: Loyalty. If you feel you won't be able to do it because your eyes might wander elsewhere or you don't think you'll be able to restrain yourself... you have no business in being in the relationship. Or if you attempt it and then find out you can't do it, it's better to step up and admit it then let it play out and causing damage later on. |
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Angelos long distance relationships Aug 19 2004, 01:41 PM
xnastyninjagrlx Long Relationships are REALLY REALLY hard to tell ... Aug 19 2004, 02:05 PM leeeza702 uhmm... it CAN work if you want it to work... you ... Aug 19 2004, 02:11 PM Angelos QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 19 2004, 2:05 PM)... Aug 19 2004, 02:17 PM aznplayaz Hey..they work if you really love her but if you d... Aug 19 2004, 02:21 PM xnastyninjagrlx QUOTEhmm i mean there is strong love but i would s... Aug 19 2004, 03:17 PM aznriceboi it all depends on both of you, if you have enough ... Aug 19 2004, 03:43 PM Angelos QUOTE(aznriceboi @ Aug 19 2004, 3:43 PM)it al... Aug 19 2004, 03:56 PM th5418 It cant work out. Destory it. Now. Aug 19 2004, 03:59 PM dfly112 if u truly luv da grl den its worth it. if shes de... Aug 19 2004, 04:31 PM xjjajeengx mmoving to relationships. ther are alot of topics ... Aug 19 2004, 04:55 PM LiNHy POO im in one too! and yess they are very difficul... Aug 19 2004, 05:31 PM stephinika i think it can work. if you guys really treasure t... Aug 19 2004, 05:32 PM lidocaligurl yea i was in a long distance relationship but mine... Aug 19 2004, 06:31 PM Weird addiction tim u have a gf and u didnt tell me!!... Sep 14 2004, 10:53 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 depends how long you've had a relationship wit... Sep 14 2004, 11:56 AM KrAzi3piNoY #1 it could be worth it if u had the time/money to... Sep 15 2004, 07:44 PM x3chrissyx3 if you LOVE each other and trust each other, all w... Sep 17 2004, 02:27 PM aznguy711 yea its all about trust u can do it Sep 17 2004, 05:43 PM Maddie I'm in one too. With somebody who just happens... Sep 17 2004, 06:18 PM sweetdreamsx3 If you guys really love each other, then it'll... Sep 17 2004, 06:23 PM Maddie Some do work out though. If there's enough lov... Sep 17 2004, 06:28 PM mglbaby has anyone ever had a long distance relationship? ... Oct 15 2004, 11:56 AM xquizit Yes I have. He's not that far I guess, an hour... Oct 15 2004, 12:00 PM JasonAkAWolf I'm sort of in one right now...But she is only... Oct 15 2004, 01:25 PM ohBrian it sucks... it never really work out..
but An Int... Oct 15 2004, 02:10 PM babiedoll03 i agree with ^^^... I met two of my boyfriends onl... Oct 15 2004, 02:27 PM islandkiss I never had a long distance relationship before.. ... Oct 15 2004, 02:57 PM LiNHy POO im in one too... in the beginning it was working o... Oct 15 2004, 03:09 PM Too Asian To DIE i neva had a long distance relation ship.... one o... Oct 15 2004, 03:14 PM sheepy never been it on. but if you REALLY love that pers... Oct 15 2004, 07:41 PM SiLLYxRUBBERduckii i'm in one right now. we've been together ... Oct 15 2004, 08:10 PM conster never had one, but i dont think it would work out ... Oct 15 2004, 08:44 PM lilxroxy mine din`t relli work out. cos i grew up with ... Oct 16 2004, 01:46 AM Individualityy Um. Can I give some advice? If your relationships ... Oct 17 2004, 10:42 AM Auktane oh like the same ole word...
depends... Oct 17 2004, 10:49 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 i'm still workin on mines,it isnt going very w... Oct 17 2004, 10:53 AM inquisitive_ I've never been in one but I think those relat... Oct 17 2004, 11:08 AM Dark Saga Yes, I am currently in a long distance relationshi... Oct 17 2004, 12:16 PM memoriesareforever just wondering if they ever work out, cuz practica... Dec 10 2004, 05:56 AM niez_cho Seriously, there are already 13 topics on this (no... Dec 10 2004, 06:07 AM _sarcastic_ well sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn... Dec 10 2004, 06:16 AM broken_lance lt depends if the person really love you. l know a... Dec 10 2004, 09:55 AM xquizit They can work... but it's hard and you truly h... Dec 10 2004, 10:01 AM waccoon They do work. An immense amount of love and trust ... Dec 10 2004, 10:10 AM misoka Time. Patience. Strong relationship. Love. Trust. ... Dec 10 2004, 10:49 PM teeners__15 well it depends on how commited the people are. an... Dec 11 2004, 01:57 AM pympgangsta4real As popular belief states, it depends on the people... Dec 11 2004, 02:01 AM nockey omg i have a long distanxe relationship.........it... Dec 11 2004, 02:25 AM electric shock usually it doesn't work out.
one cheats on ano... Dec 11 2004, 02:51 AM AngelicEyz00 not really... you need commitment Dec 11 2004, 03:27 AM kae i'm in one and its really hard...
u better get... Dec 11 2004, 04:44 AM x3chrissyx3 They do work out if you want it to. Usually works ... Dec 11 2004, 11:00 AM sammi rules you depends on the people. Dec 11 2004, 12:59 PM leogirl73089 i don't think they do work. like i mean u need... Dec 11 2004, 01:18 PM Dark Saga I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 months... Dec 12 2004, 12:16 AM tyedyefroggy I believe that distant relationships do work out i... Dec 12 2004, 04:55 PM XPLICITxDORK i have been with someone in pa for about 4 months ... Dec 12 2004, 10:32 PM tungtwista most likely it wont work out. i mean the guy/ or g... Dec 12 2004, 10:37 PM nockey damn...ok i have a long distance relationship and ... Dec 13 2004, 02:31 AM lilboriqua2006 do you think it works? I need advice plz Feb 18 2005, 11:12 AM Programmer no it doesn't...only ends up with you both get... Feb 18 2005, 11:26 AM Frankie probably not. only if y 'all can see each othe... Feb 18 2005, 11:26 AM sweetdreamsx3 Most long distance relationships don't last. U... Feb 18 2005, 12:50 PM boing_avenger ya they can work, it just depends on how commited ... Feb 18 2005, 01:00 PM Litobabygurl88 it might work out sometimes if you can both see ea... Feb 18 2005, 01:16 PM perfectxflaw23 It really depends on how far the distance is, how ... Feb 18 2005, 01:34 PM racoons > you i dno. my best friend is in a pretty steady ldr, a... Feb 18 2005, 01:37 PM AngelicEyz00 Some work, some don't. It all depends on the c... Feb 18 2005, 01:48 PM _sarcastic_ ^ i agree.
you've got to put a lot of effort i... Feb 18 2005, 05:22 PM Heathasm i dont think its good for young people but for old... Feb 18 2005, 05:34 PM Just_Dream True, it does depend...
All relationships that in... Feb 18 2005, 05:43 PM cewinee if you love her and she loves you then it can work... Feb 18 2005, 06:24 PM XLilAznGrl592X My friend just broke up with a girl that lives far... May 22 2005, 10:13 PM Azarel They work. May 22 2005, 10:14 PM mzkandi I agree with Anna, they can work but so does the s... May 22 2005, 11:24 PM jordanriane Long distance relationships depend on the person. ... May 22 2005, 11:24 PM XLilAznGrl592X lol srry i didnt search i just went through the fo... May 22 2005, 11:33 PM x_angawhomps They depend on the couple.. by long-distance, do y... May 22 2005, 11:38 PM jnukes i think they're dumb ..
but like .. as long ... May 22 2005, 11:47 PM
Azarel QUOTE(jnukes @ May 22 2005, 9:47 PM)but like ... May 23 2005, 01:12 AM ItzOnlySydney not for long =( May 22 2005, 11:51 PM dreamerOi they work depending on how much you can put into t... May 23 2005, 12:02 AM dahding they work just fine... May 23 2005, 05:57 AM shereyol i think they work May 23 2005, 06:36 AM belg They don't work for long for some reasons. Tha... May 23 2005, 06:50 AM Nicolatofu Depends on how dedicated anf faithful each person ... May 23 2005, 06:53 AM forgottentears I'm sure they will work as long as you guys ta... May 23 2005, 05:50 PM Shattered_Hope Some long distance relationships work...but many d... May 24 2005, 06:50 PM mouse_3k For a while but my first love was a long distance ... May 24 2005, 08:26 PM dani41790 Well it depends. If you're commited to that ki... May 24 2005, 10:40 PM macb long distance relationships are really tough
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