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[SuiE]

tell us how you and your boiifriend/girlfriend got together =) it can be cute, romantic, stupid, or just plain crazie ;D

mah storie:

me and mah boiifriend has been best friends since forever.. its reallii cute we tell each other everything.. so one night just for the heck of it we were playing 10 questions.. he asked me nine and he said he would save the last question for some other time cus he didnt noe wat to ask... so i asked him mah last question.. it was "do you like me back?" he didnt noe exactlii how to answer because he didnt want to risk the friendship we had noww.. so he said he has to think about it.. so the next day he told me he wanted to ask me a question.. but at night.. so at night i went online and asked him wat the question was.. he said "heres mah tenth question.. would you go out with me?" i think that is adorable..=)

so anyways you guys got any?

[BoogythatBe]

I'm loving all the ones I've read so far. So great. But I guess it's my turn.

I'm going to call him "Bob", because that's what I had begun to tell my little sister who it was everytime she would walk into the room and find me on the phone. *LoL*

But anyways, "Bob" and I knew each other for a year before we got together. I met him through a close friend of mine and he ended up IM'ing me out of the blue one day. The thing is, he's known for being an a**hole. And I'm not going to lie, he's the epitome of the word to the core- but never towards me. But soon after four months we become really close, always talking over IM (because he's in Cali) and one night asks if it's all right to call me up. I say "Sure." without a moment's hesitation because I considered him to be a really cool homeboy... and it was after 9, so I had free minutes on my cell. *LoL* Up until then, I had NEVER heard a guy's voice like his. (He swears it's monotonous, but it's not at all.) Which was just something that set me off for a moment because I fell in love with his voice and I told him so and he ended up telling me the same thing about my own voice. And he's a surfer, so he's always saying "Dude." and "Bummer." and stuff like that and I'd pick on him about it- but I loved it. But that first conversation over the phone we asked each other questions and we joked around, he learned a little bit about my past relationships (which weren't all that great) and I asked about his own, but he was really vague about it. I didn't mind, it was just a really chill and laid back conversation. From the get go, we were close.

Then soon after he'd always ask for my permission if it was all right to call me when he'd see me online or if he knew someone was talking to me on the phone. Some nights he'd call me just as he was getting back from a party or from hanging out with his buddies and we'd just shoot the shit and joke around, which was something I loved about talking to him. Well one night we were talking and he brought up something he had read on my journal about me talking about dating this one kid and he asked me about it. I answered honestly because I wasn't aware of anything that was there on his end and he got quiet. I shot the question back at him and yet again, another vague answer. A couple weeks went by and we didn't talk much and when we did, it was online and even then it was just really awkward between us. I'd ask him questions and he'd answer them half-heartedly, which in turn made me feel as if I had done something wrong but I didn't ask. A few days later I read his journal and saw an entry on someone he had developed feelings for but he kept her anonymous-

"Another thing was letting go of someone. I'm not gonna use names because the people who read this get offended at me using names, that and it's more vague if I don't, so people can't get blackmailed, blah blah blah. So from now on, the person I'm referring to will be simply known as uh... her/she? That'll do, I'll know what I'm talking about, and that's the important thing. Anyway, back to the story. So there's this girl I've gotten to know over the past... uh... well, hell, I can't even remember, maybe past 4 months I'm gonna say. Over that time, I'd talk to her maybe four or five times a week at least, excluding those weeks where I just kinda drop off the radar and nobody knows what happens to me, so we got to know each other pretty well. She's smart, creative, cute, and (this is the important thing) one of the most genuinely good people I've ever gotten to know. As in like... heroic good, almost, as opposed to she-looks-good-in-those-pants good. The problem is, I never knew where she stood in her feelings for me. It's always been so ambiguous, or maybe that's just me being ignorant. Either way, I was pretty confused up until a little while ago, when she was talking about dating this other guy. Bummer. I, of course, acted like a jackass and kinda put some distance between us emotionally, like I'd answer all her questions blandly and just generally try and avoid asking her questions, you know, dumb childish shit that I usually pull. So I go down to the apartment's gym and work out to blow off some steam, since there was literally NOTHING else to do except read, and I'm kinda over that since finishing Paradise Lost the other night. Damn, excercise works f**king wonders on your head, you'd think years of surfing and playing football in high school would've taught me that. Anyway, I came upon the realization that despite her interests in someone else, I can still love her as a friend, and the last thing I'd want to do is alienate a friend as wonderful as her. Hopefully I haven't chased her off already, but whatever, I'd deserve it. We'll see what happens."

Do you know how long I had stared at that entry for? *LoL* But a few days later we talked about it and we sort of admitted that there were feelings on both ends but we didn't talk about getting together. Given the fact that he's in Cali and I'm in Florida. We left it hanging in the air and continued to talk and such. His birthday rolled around in May and I ended up writing him an email declaring my feelings for him and that I wasn't sure if it was love or not but that it was deep. I was nervous as hell because I wasn't sure how'd he'd take it or if he'd shoot me down or something. I stared for a hot minute at the email knowing that if I didn't send it then, I'd never send it at all and so I did and stayed off line for a while to avoid him. A mature thing to do, I know. *LoL* But after a few days we're talking again and he tells me he read the email and asked if I really did feel that way. We talked and we established that a long distance relationship would be tough. Yet again, it was left hanging in the air. My parent's wedding rolled around and I disappeared for a week or so for the preparations and the trips that we were taking and such. The entire time I would think of him and upon coming back after that while he declared that he really did care for me and that not talking to me for a while made him realize that and that if it didn't freak me out (yeah, right) he wanted to commit to me even if I was across the U.S. And that was the 6th of June. We're so head-over-heels for one another it's surreal, I love that kid. P.S.- He still asks for my permission to call me. I can't get over that.

But with that, I'm done. I'm sorry for it being a novel.