If you were offended/hurt/harassed/abused........., by someone you love... Options

[xj_liana_tx]

if you were like hurt seriously (abused/harassed...) by someone you love, say like your parents, would do do anything, would you report them?? I mean, it's a really big emotional conflict because you love them and you don't want them to get hurt, but they keep hurting you and you've got no choice... it's just a scenario but think about it, if it happens to you, what would you have done?? send them to jail means you don't see them anymore and have to know that they are suffering, which might not be good either since you love them very much. But on the other hand, if you don't do anything, YOU will get hurt more and more and have to carry a burden....
i would've broke down and cry.. i wouldn't know what to do.. i mean, i can't stand sending them to jail nor do i want to keep suffering.

[noaccounthere]

My dad has hit me so many times when I was young..harassed too.. Actually I'm going to wait until I'm 18 so that he doesn't have any control over me whatsoever, so I can report him. it's a little late, but I'm going to make him get angry again, and then report him and get him sent to jail. Or even trick him and send him on a 1 way ticket back to vietnam with no money whatsoever. Haha even if he liked lviing in vietnam, he'll have no money and have to actually work hard for money over there.

I just don't want to report him now because I won't have anywhere to run to. At least when I'm older, I'll have my boyfriend to protect me and get back at my dad for all the terrible things he has done.

Wow wheres the family love?

For me my parents used to spank me when I was little when I did things wrong. I wouldnt do it to my kids when i have them since its considered child abuse now. But I would have to say my parents knew how to do it. They didnt overdue it, just to get the point that what I did is wrong and I shouldnt do it again. Of course it all stopped when I was like 7, and from their discipline I can say I got very disciplined but then again all kids are diffrent, I guess I didnt think too much of it since it didnt really hurt me haha.

In texas though, Capital punishment is legal! Teachers are legally able to hit students for discipline, such as spanking.

I guess im lucky to have really understanding parents who know how to do the right thing.