the signals he gives me, what do they mean? |
 Dec 7 2004, 05:30 PM
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ok well first of all, im in this beautiful relationship, but now my guy is always giing me excuses about how he can't call me. he gives really lame excuses, he'll be like "ohh i can't call you cuz im going to do homework," or he'll say "ohh i need my nap." andhe doesn't hold my hand anymore when we walk dwn the hallways in school, and he never really gives me real hugs?! he gives me like friend taps. it's retarded. and now i don't know if he likes me cuz he tells me he loves me with all my heart! and i love him too! we've been friends for like 2 years and we started dating this year....and i just don't know that he's trying to say? and i want to talk to him about this problem, but i don't know what to say!? please help!!!
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Dec 9 2004, 09:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yes, do what ComradeRed said: "Confront him in a dark alley."
You need to talk to him about this. He's pushing you away, for a reason. Maybe he doesn't want people to think you two are dating anymore? But "just friends?" That could be the issue. I'm not saying that it esactly is; his signs are confusing. Maybe he's secretly dating someone else and tries to avoid you, or tries to make it so that the person he's dating doesn't realize yoo two are still together? *shrugs* who knows. Anyway, He says that he "loves you???" WTH.. You two have only been recently dating "this year?" And you two have known each other for two years.. MAYBE.. JUST MAYBE.. he only truly wants a "just friends" type of relationship, but loves you "as a friend." Talk to him a bout it. What if he's ashamed of being known as to have been dating you? Who knows. But one thing's for sure: you two are not in love. Don't use the words love too loosely. Seon Ho, you and your off-topicness and randomness. |
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xodc182ox the signals he gives me Dec 7 2004, 05:30 PM
_sarcastic_ QUOTE(xodc182ox @ Dec 7 2004, 5:30 PM)and i w... Dec 7 2004, 05:39 PM ShadowPixie Yes, tell him, that would be best. Sometimes, they... Dec 7 2004, 05:46 PM WildGriffin Hmmm....this sounds tricky...try....
*walk up to ... Dec 7 2004, 07:28 PM Nicolatofu How do you call that a beautiful relationship? I... Dec 7 2004, 07:32 PM ComradeRed Confront him in a dark alley. Dec 7 2004, 09:08 PM xodc182ox well it was a great relationship, until all this m... Dec 7 2004, 09:46 PM x_angawhomps You seriously need to talk to him about it.. it so... Dec 7 2004, 09:55 PM krnxswat QUOTE(WildGriffin @ Dec 7 2004, 7:28 PM)Hmmm.... Dec 7 2004, 09:57 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 talk to him about it; tell him you've noticed ... Dec 7 2004, 10:00 PM someflipguy Ever think that he needs to do Homework or Maybe h... Dec 8 2004, 01:16 PM yanners talk to him about it, or end the relationship. i ... Dec 9 2004, 05:32 AM Weird addiction tell him how u feel... Dec 9 2004, 07:33 AM swtpumkinpie QUOTE(someflipguy @ Dec 8 2004, 2:16 PM)Walk ... Dec 9 2004, 11:50 AM B1onde_1ns1de QUOTEwell it was a great relationship, until all t... Dec 9 2004, 06:58 PM you suck dont take that shit from him. i use those excuses ... Dec 9 2004, 09:08 PM Shortiiex he seems to me like he had a talk from someone and... Dec 11 2004, 09:37 PM oO_BrItTiShBaBe_Oo just tell him how you feel. remember to say ... Dec 11 2004, 11:23 PM Ange1sillusion there's a reason why he's doing all of thi... Dec 11 2004, 11:37 PM x____duckii Tell him you feel. Maybe he isn't aware of wha... Dec 12 2004, 04:43 PM
SSJ Kenshin QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Dec 7 2004, 10:55 PM)You... Dec 12 2004, 04:45 PM |
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