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 Nov 10 2004, 10:00 PM
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 Melissa <3  Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,580  |
...tell a guy that likes you that you just want to be friends? Without hurting him?
....ugh, I feel so BAD. 
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Dec 9 2004, 08:51 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Either way, he'll still be hurt. No matter what. I told a guy I just wanted to be friends, that I wasn't ready for a relationship, but at the same time, i did like him, but I wanted to get to know him better. It took him 2 years to tell me that when I said that to him, he was hurt. He didn't seem so when I told him that, but he really was. Of course that was 2 years ago lol.
Anyway, when my boyfriend first asked me out, I said no, that I wanted to be "just friends." After that, he got sad and he stopped tlaking to me. I felt so bad. I though he was cute, But I didn't want to like-like anyone just because they were cute, i wanted to like-like guys because of their personality, and I didn't know him long enough. I also wasn't ready for a relationship, and I still sorta liked the guy that I didn't date and yea.  So I was unsure of myself. But eventually, I gave my boyfriend a chance, and I'm SOO glad that I did. I feel so lucky that I gave him the chance.All I can say is that it's going to be tough to break it to the guy, but you have to tell him. But at the same time, realize how much this guy might like you. Give people chances... You never know when you might end up rejecting "THE ONE." |
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Edele How do you Nov 10 2004, 10:00 PM
xPartyGrlDx you can say "i'm not ready for that kind ... Nov 10 2004, 10:15 PM Edele Ugh, yeah. Really tough. It used to be so easy. Bu... Nov 10 2004, 10:24 PM stephinika yeah thats a toughy. its better though to tell him... Nov 11 2004, 12:26 AM MyVermilionPlague Yah, it's hard.. be as nice as you can possibl... Nov 11 2004, 01:03 AM kbgirly i used to like this guy for a long time
and he kne... Nov 11 2004, 02:01 AM kaka1204 .....just tell him.....if u don't tell him it... Dec 9 2004, 08:25 PM _sarcastic_ i know its hard, i've tried. but just tell him... Dec 9 2004, 08:36 PM airam "you're like a brother to me"?
*hop... Dec 9 2004, 08:53 PM
dani41790 umm just tell the guy that you just wanna be frien... Dec 9 2004, 09:06 PM |
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