my best friend of 5 years,, just chose her bf over me. |
 Dec 7 2004, 12:24 AM
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 Linny the dork.  Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258  |
okay me and my best friend, let's call her dee, are like the closest people in the world, we know eachother in and out, and we've never had problems with eachother's bf's until this year, i don't know why.. i was really heartbroken when the last guy i liked rejected me, and she showed no sympathy, and now she's found apparently "the one", let's call jake, and jake is a really good friend of mine, but now that they're together she won't talk to me anymore because she thinks i'm acting jealous, and i'm not talking to them because i don't wanna get in the way of their blooming relationship. i don't know if that would be called jealousy but i don't know if i should be apologizing or even why we're fighting lol. i live a very complicated life people, sorry
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Dec 7 2004, 08:39 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Why should you apologize? You should always choose your best friends over your boyfriend.. I don't think you're jealous of her because she has him, I think you're jealous over the fact of their relationship.. because she's getting closer to him when you guys were really really close?
She's either obsessed, or just infatuated.. if she's infatuation, it'll go away soon.. I hope.. and if she has any problems with her boyfriend she'll come to you. Then you can help her, and if she blows you off again, just remind her about what you did for her.. and blow up in her face.  Anger is your friend ;]  Okay now I'm just rambling..
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anger_is_my_friend my best friend of 5 years, Dec 7 2004, 12:24 AM
DrEaMgUy2K1 eh , i wish i had a life like urs , its far from c... Dec 7 2004, 12:27 AM yanners ouch, i don't think you should apologize since... Dec 7 2004, 04:59 AM _sarcastic_ don't apologize to her for sth you didn't ... Dec 7 2004, 05:25 PM WildGriffin Basic rule of life seen over and over...and over a... Dec 7 2004, 07:29 PM Nicolatofu ^wow, i like the way you showed sympathy
It may be... Dec 7 2004, 07:35 PM stephinika yeah from the sounds of it you've done nothing... Dec 7 2004, 08:23 PM 177emories your not jealous and its good that ur giving her s... Dec 8 2004, 12:50 PM someflipguy Bitch slap her! j/k do what you feel is the ... Dec 8 2004, 01:02 PM xPartyGrlDx that just stinks. why should you apologize? you d... Dec 8 2004, 05:11 PM you suck u gotta tell her how U feel! tell her that a g... Dec 8 2004, 08:01 PM xbr0kensmil3 talk to her about it and show her your point of vi... Dec 8 2004, 08:57 PM tungtwista dont get yourself all tripped up. time will tell e... Dec 8 2004, 09:02 PM ichiban if youve been best friends of 5 years, you should ... Dec 8 2004, 09:33 PM xbladeoffire90x Eventually she'll break up with him. (Probably... Dec 12 2004, 02:48 AM tyedyefroggy Just go out there and tell her, but that is hard n... Dec 12 2004, 04:10 PM x____duckii Wow. Your best friend of 5 years chose her bf over... Dec 12 2004, 04:28 PM turtlekid75 woah, i'm sure my best friend would never do t... Dec 29 2004, 03:53 AM xSWEETxCANDiix wow. hmm..I think you should talk her about it [= ... Dec 29 2004, 03:56 AM DaTru KataLYST i had this happen to me on my vacation w/ my best ... Dec 29 2004, 04:23 AM cmgchica717 Dont apologize...you did nothing wrong. The two o... Dec 29 2004, 03:52 PM Kathleen I notice you don't mention their real names...... Dec 29 2004, 09:52 PM
anger_is_my_friend QUOTE(Kathleen @ Dec 29 2004, 9:52 PM)I notic... Dec 30 2004, 12:46 AM jambaJUICE Well.. then apparently she's not much of a bes... Dec 29 2004, 10:10 PM |
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