oh help, bff problem, cant get over him Options

[mary death]

ok so heres the deal, my best friend and i used to get along great...untill this summer. He was best friends with a whole lot of girls, and i was always the last one. i was his safety net and he would only talk to me if no one else would hang out with him. i was his last choice. So this August i called him and told him i couldnt deal withit anymore and i wanted to stop being friends, and he didnt really understand and he never really accepted it. Ive told him numerous times since then that i cant handle it and i need to be left alone (he was my only real friend) but he doesnt get it.. I dont haveto see him all the time anymore cuz he goes to the public high school in ur town, and i go to a private school, but i go back to the public school after school every day to help with the stage crew for the play. hes in the play so i do see him sometimes, and everytime i do he waves sarcastically nd wont leave me alone. Im thinking about quitting crew because i cant take it anymore and hes harrassing my other 2 friends and is mean to them now too. I know i am giving him way too much power over me by quitting crew and hating him, but i miss his nice side. but there is no way im ever going back to be his friend. what should i do, and how can i get over him?

thanx,
mary

[ApocalypseAelis]

That guy is a bastard, no offense, pretend he doesn't exist and do not leave the crew. Like mentioned above, that is letting him win. If he talks to you, be stiff and polite and act like you don't know him. However, if he is nice to you, be nice back. Give him a chance to show his "nice side" again. If he doesn't, then imagine that he's a piece of furniture that simply gets in your way.