When a guy..., is he using you? Options

[caity_bug2005]

Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me for another chick and he says that I was obsessed with him and all and he wasn't in "TRUE" love with me how should I react? And the day before he moved he invited me over to his house and we like made out and stuff and then he took me home and then we went over to his girlfriends house....was he just using me for like what I give him?

[mouse_3k]

But i mean we were going out for 9 1/2 months and he like proposed to me and everything, and he said that he would always love me and he still says he loves me just not like that. So, i dont know what to think or say when he says these things? Especially about the proposing thing. That kinda thing is serious.

and ur how old exactly? if u r in the teens, then its all BS. I learned that the hard way. kinda seemed like he had feelings for u but then it kinda dissolved? I was like in the sam situation as u but except that last make out thing. I dont think he was using you. He probably just grew apart from u


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i just saw ur profile and it says ur like 14 or something. comeon now FOURTEEN!!! stop being naiive cause it will just bring u down more when u believe Bulls*it like this. gettin married at 14..thats funny..

It's Ok bout the language. I just...hate being hurt and he's always like well why do you still care bout me and stuff? But I dunno why I still care, I'm like that with everyone actually so....yeah. I know I probably sound pathetic saying all this crap but....its true. Lol

I guess it might be true now but later on, u probably will realize that it isnt. give urself time and find another guy who cares for you. he aint worth ur time NE more.