My Boyfriend, does anyone have answer? Options

[caity_bug2005]

First of all, my boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago for another girl at school after 9 1/2 months and she is like controlling everything that he does. I mean he's not allowed to talk to me anymore and when he does it's like for 2 mintues and I think thats just stupid. Do you think that I should tell him that his girlfriend is being too controlling or just leave it like that? I'm just asking because here lately he's been like really depressed and like it just worries me and I don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him this but I think it's the right thing to do...so should I even if he doesn't care what I think or think i'm being mean about it?

[caity_bug2005]

And you know what he said after we broke up? He said that he wasn't in TRUE love with me and he loves this new girl named Teresa. She makes him go to church and he's gothic...dont you think that that's just messed up?!?!?! And he said that since she dosen't like the military and since he wanted to join the Army after he got outa high school, he said that he'd just give it up for her. I think he's just being the meanest person in the world, and he says why does it even matter to me.....well i care about him. He acts like that's a bad thing. And also, he said that i was obsessed with him because I cried over him. And you know what, his new gf cries over him too. Gosh, I dont see whats gotten into him. Man, I really think that his gf is a real pain the @$$, gosh!!!! Dont you think thats crazy? Cause I sure do.