Abusive Boyfriends |
 Nov 29 2004, 04:54 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Okay, I have this older boyfriend who's in the military (he's about 6'3, musuclar) and lately he's been getting really violent. He'll have these odd anger outbursts and recently, we got into a huge fight and he pushed me down a flight of stairs. I broke my arm.
He's had a past of violent behavior when he was 16 or 17 (he's in his early 20s now) and he's taking it out on me. This is my longest relationship ever (about 3 years) and I think I love him. Atleast I thought I did. I really don't want to end it, but my parents are getting suspicious of my injuries. I managed to tell them that I tripped down the stairs in my highschool. But when he punched me in my face, I had a bruise on my cheek, my parents didn't believe me when I insisted I got hit with a soccer ball during PE. But he says he loves me and he gets so upset after all the fighting stops. I'm just really confused. So what do I do? I really don't want to end it, but I feel that I have no choice... |
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Dec 3 2004, 09:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
QUOTE(jooleeah @ Dec 2 2004, 5:29 PM) Maybe he just can't control himself. maybe he has all this anger and he aciddently takes it out on you. and after he sees you crying, he realizes what he's doing and such. i still agree with what i said earlier. you need to talk to him. but make sure someone's next to you just incase he decides to absuse you again. thats horrible advice we just had this in lecture yesterday in my Soc 350: Soc of marraige and family class ABUSE DOES NOT STOP! it is chronic, not a 1 time thing he WONT change, he WILL still get mad and abuse you he NEED help and JAIL TIME I have been a firefighter and EMT for starting my 5th year now, and every abuse case I see I see again...it is NOT a 1 time thing |
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i heart john Abusive Boyfriends Nov 29 2004, 04:54 PM
_sarcastic_ i think you should end it, i mean you should befor... Nov 29 2004, 05:34 PM miss_asian i think u should before u get beat up really badly... Nov 29 2004, 05:47 PM MyVermilionPlague End it.
You broke your arm?
Wow.
It could get ugly... Nov 29 2004, 06:04 PM angel-roh well if you dont want to get beaten by your boyfri... Nov 29 2004, 06:05 PM bigpoppaproppy he's a piece of sh*t excuse for a human being ... Nov 29 2004, 06:07 PM x____duckii Talk to him. If he continues, end it (unless you w... Nov 29 2004, 06:10 PM pikimoo He's not like really crazy in love with you, i... Nov 29 2004, 06:20 PM Nicolatofu Maybe it was only a broken arm this time, but trus... Nov 29 2004, 06:28 PM mouse_3k QUOTESo what do I do? I really don't want to e... Nov 29 2004, 06:29 PM aznhunnie6o1 well.. this is a toughfy cause u think you love hi... Nov 29 2004, 06:50 PM yummy_delight you should definitely end it. i don't see why ... Nov 29 2004, 06:54 PM i heart john QUOTE(aznhunnie6o1 @ Nov 29 2004, 6:50 PM)but... Nov 29 2004, 08:35 PM yummy_delight QUOTE([f)eleeza,Nov 29 2004, 8:35 PM] he alre... Nov 29 2004, 08:38 PM EyeOfTheTiger5 Raped and beaten up, get out of there! If he ... Nov 29 2004, 08:46 PM Shortiiex you really do have no choice.....but becareful whe... Nov 29 2004, 10:04 PM blowpops69 break up with him now. and request for the mafia t... Nov 29 2004, 10:31 PM jooleeah holy crap....he's beaten you AND raped you? an... Nov 29 2004, 10:45 PM jecissa You have grown attached to him, and it is hard for... Nov 29 2004, 11:00 PM helllla jankyyyy is this a joke? How can you take this? I know you ... Nov 29 2004, 11:39 PM LiLaZnGirL122 uhh i noe u love him but break up with him hes not... Nov 30 2004, 02:14 AM aznangel4eva it mite be possible that he loves you do, n' i... Nov 30 2004, 03:18 AM MyChemicalRomance. if he really loved you, he wouldn't abuse you.... Nov 30 2004, 04:03 AM bigpoppaproppy QUOTE(aznangel4eva @ Nov 30 2004, 3:18 AM)it ... Nov 30 2004, 04:03 AM i heart john I'm still kind of confused. Every time he hits... Nov 30 2004, 07:59 PM muffin dude 292 Talk to him to see what is wrong. But if he does h... Nov 30 2004, 08:23 PM LiNHy POO get him some help! an anger management class i... Nov 30 2004, 08:51 PM airam http://www.scarleteen.com/crisis/articles.html
(oo... Nov 30 2004, 08:53 PM x Wolf Tearz x You sure this guy doesnt have any metal problems??... Nov 30 2004, 09:25 PM jooleeah QUOTEI'm still kind of confused. Every time he... Dec 2 2004, 05:29 PM mSz_dOrk_anGeL Leave him.
Now.
I've been there, done that.
If... Dec 2 2004, 05:44 PM imadorkabledxd you need to break it off with him now! if he l... Dec 3 2004, 03:51 PM mirage this relationship is not worth it... read this boo... Dec 3 2004, 04:17 PM lyin_in_wait what will happen if he gets really angry and....we... Dec 3 2004, 06:57 PM KingdomHeartsFan I would end it. Your friends and ur parents don... Dec 3 2004, 10:51 PM laur3nw I seriously think you should end it even though he... Dec 3 2004, 11:13 PM teeners__15 end it now.
doenst matter if he regrets it after ... Dec 3 2004, 11:52 PM feejayjay I think you need to get out of there, girlfriend. ... Dec 4 2004, 12:03 AM alone in the world ew ... wth is wrong with him. report him if i e... Dec 4 2004, 12:05 AM xSWEETxCANDiix hm...talk to him about it first...but if he does i... Dec 4 2004, 12:25 AM eli5e beat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u doing... Dec 4 2004, 12:29 AM DaToNeViEtBoI916 END IT...NOW
he might get all depressed and what ... Dec 4 2004, 12:36 AM angel_revelation wow... you really shouldn't take that from him... Dec 4 2004, 01:03 AM xheartbreaker Doesn't he have enough violence in his life al... Dec 4 2004, 05:28 AM i heart john QUOTEbeat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u ... Dec 30 2004, 05:45 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS i think he loves you, seriously, like loves you de... Dec 30 2004, 05:58 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS o yea, and i think you should tell your parents. S... Dec 30 2004, 06:00 PM inlonelinessidie 1. He might be bipolar.
2. I know you love him bu... Dec 30 2004, 06:03 PM xSqueekyMexicanx you should end it and tell the police cuz i think ... Dec 30 2004, 06:47 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE i think you should end it. later on, you will get ... Dec 30 2004, 08:13 PM cmgchica717 no man should ever ever lay his hands on you. Lea... Dec 30 2004, 09:00 PM lulu424 u suck Dec 31 2004, 01:32 AM xtransatlanticismx didn't you ever have those sessions in middle ... Dec 31 2004, 05:52 PM swtlillaugher you should seriously end it. forget about him. if ... Jan 24 2005, 08:38 PM lil_gymnast6 END IT May 9 2005, 05:20 PM tchotchke ... this was a while ago. Are you still with him? May 10 2005, 09:21 PM angelshortipnai gah, i REALLY think u should end it..i mean, it CA... May 10 2005, 09:48 PM xoxvietbabyy I think you should end it, but who knows what he... May 11 2005, 01:33 AM yukichan this topic was started a while ago..hu brought thi... May 11 2005, 01:39 AM x0xpaulax0x about every persons reply sucked!!
n... May 11 2005, 04:47 PM literemix24 I think that you guys should talk this over, if th... May 12 2005, 07:31 PM nothingless you have a baby. you don't want someone like h... May 13 2005, 04:43 PM iiloveyou637 iii suggest you end it because he hurts you even m... Jul 1 2005, 06:00 PM Fallen Fairy no you shouldn't take that from him or from an... Jul 1 2005, 06:05 PM pixamelon .. Jul 1 2005, 07:56 PM
CloudNine QUOTE(pixamelon @ Jul 1 2005, 6:56 PM)...have... Jul 2 2005, 05:17 PM sheepy well.. it doesnt matter if you love him, becus if ... Jul 1 2005, 08:16 PM enyceXaddiction doesnt this belong in the relationship section? Jul 1 2005, 08:56 PM taggy505 run away and take ur daughter go distant and then ... Jul 1 2005, 09:27 PM WickedDreamer A bruise can be covered with foundation and a brok... Jul 2 2005, 01:28 AM CloudNine Okay. First off I've been in a similar situati... Jul 2 2005, 05:00 PM anubis once or twice is forgivable--but multiple times--y... Jul 2 2005, 05:21 PM i heart john Who brought this topic back?
Well, most of you k... Jul 2 2005, 05:46 PM rx_azngirl End it fast! And give him some help. Jul 2 2005, 10:34 PM Mizz Rizza i dont get why you still love him
he abuses you
an... Jul 5 2005, 01:32 PM FailedSense hmm.
I have anger problems, myself.
I have never... Jul 5 2005, 01:47 PM x0hAyLiE0x hun u shoudnt be in a relationship like dat...he g... Jul 5 2005, 01:49 PM Kristinaa I really dont think that's HEALTHY for you eit... Jul 5 2005, 02:02 PM PinkTrash maybe his problem doesnt have to do with the relat... Jul 5 2005, 04:02 PM xxaznxgurlxx I think you should don't go with him. If you a... Jul 6 2005, 02:09 AM 3ssx end it. dont risk your safety. one day something r... Jul 6 2005, 03:25 PM xaznxehgix you should definately end it. You can't stay ... Jul 6 2005, 03:28 PM Smilessss i think yoo should end it like wat otha says...dis... Jul 6 2005, 06:17 PM LeAnBaK I think that even though u say u love him and u pr... Jul 6 2005, 06:29 PM |
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