I gotta question...., And I hope it can be answered Options

[ShadowPixie]

OK...I gotta question. Now... maybe I'm wrong, but it seems, a lot of girls (or at least the girls I know) arent attracted to the sweet kind of guy. I mean, they become such a good friend to me (yeah, this is about me ) and they constantly tell me how sweet I am (which i try my best to be ) but anyways, I become a friend... and thats it. I mean, I am always as nice as I can possible be. I try to be polite and treat them all with respect, but it never seems to work out for me. It seems the guys who treat girls like crap are the ones girls are the most attracted to. is that really how it works? I hear so often how shallow guys are, and things like that. and how gals say they are sick of it. I don't think I am shallow by any means, but yet, I still fall short. I'm not exactly frustrated, but at the same time...I'm quite confused by it. I could use a little help please. I just would like to know it thats really is true...or I'm just being paranoid.

[cleec]

Girls are really so stupid sometimes, and yeah I'm a girl but I have to make that statement. It is true, we really don't know what we want. I think some of us just like that mysterious badass, maybe it's more exciting I don't know. The sweet guy to me is usually the best friend, the buddy. I don't want a badass I just want a guy that acts like himself, that's all thats needed. Most of those bad guys are just trying to impress the girl, which sadly works sometimes. I say GO SWEET GUYS! You deserve it.