HELP, ... Options

[Stupidblonde06]

I like this guy.. anddd I think he likes me. We've kissed several times over the last week or so... but.. he hasn't asked me out, and I'm not used to kissing someone I'm not dating. I think that I'm really falling and I want to know if he really likes me and wants to go out, orr if I'm just a friend with benefits. It's confusing .. and yeah.

I know what more than half of you are going to say. Just tell him. We don't really talk about "us" because I think we're both kind of nervous. I also don't want to scare him away or say something that may make him feel weird around me.

How can I let him know that I want to be more than friends without being obvious?

[emo_kid]

ah guys are always confusing. especially when it comes to friends with benefits vs. an actual relationship. it's not always easy to tell what the other person wants. and, like you mentioned, the easiest thing to do would be to talk to him about it. i know, i'd be scared to death to, but if neither of you brings it up, nothing is going to happen. next time you're kissing, or together, you could say something like "so, what exactly do we have going on here?" in a light tone, so you're not subjecting yourself to revealing feelings you may not want him to know about. there's obviously some attraction there, but he could easily be just as confused as you. hope this helps!