break up how-tos, a little advice from the experts? Options

[CallMeClumsy]

So. My boyfriend called my house and my mom answered the phone. He thought she was me. Unfortunately,my mom got all suspscious and asked me who he was. I simply shrugged it off and she told my father. My father denied it and said he trusted me. Note: my parents don't know about our relationship. It's killing me that my parents have so much trust in me and I'm hiding behind their backs. I want to break up with him ASAP, but championships are next week. The coach told me not to break it off until AFTER championships. But then, I don't want it to kill him over Christmas. Now, I just can't wait that long! So please...do you have some advice on what I should do?

[HaN4RaNg]

eh. i disagree. im all about respect for parents even if what they say may not always seem right to us, they're speaking with greater experience and knowledge than us. i also disobeyed my mom a lot and dated a lot of guys. turned out each relationship was a waste of time and energy. the only thing i gained from the relationships was knowledge on what sorta guys not to date and why i shouldnt b dating. but its also something u begin to realize within age and seeing ur surroundings. watching experiences enfold before u. ur parents r only looking out for u.