Dealing with guys, how to... Options

[xheavenzcentzx]

How do you deal with a guy that doesn't wanna be with you, but doesn't want you to move on either? does that make sense? lemme explain...
So there's this guy.. who.. is a really awesome guy.. how awesome? oh he's got girls lined up for him. Anyway we had at talk.. and well.. He wants to 'wait' to consider 'us' until I'm a little older (cuz he's 2 years older) even though.. the age difference didn't matter 2 years AGO when I was a freshmen and he was a junior going to different schools... confusing? yah so welcome to my world. So I said.. fine.. be that way >< And so now I'm trying to get over him.. cept he's like.. not letting me? He gets way .. "angry" with me when i go talk to some other guys.. or when guys flirt with me.. and definitely when i flirt back. but remember.. he doesn't really want BE with me.. so technically he just wants me to chase him forever until he's "okay" with "us" >< what a jerk huh? well.. i can't just tell him to leave me the F alone because 1. he's my friend and 2. he's my brother's friend too.. and that wouldn't be fair to my brother. I see this guy.. WAY too much.. but h'es fun to hang out with i dont mind.. so how do i deal with this? I dont wanna keep pissing him off, but i dont wanna wait for him ><

[simplyannoy]

hmm okkay.. oO First of all, he have no right to ask you to wait for him or "chase" him second of all, a woman's youth doesn't last foreva! <-- did that make sense? But you should really talk to him though because it's not fair for you to always wait for him. He needs to learn that he can't "hog" someone.