i love you, when to use those words |
 Nov 26 2004, 01:59 AM
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i was over at my boyfriend's house the other day and he told me that he loved me. we're only 14 and we've only been going out for like a month. but he told me that he'd loved me for a while. i told him that i liked him a lot but wasn't ready to use those words. was that a smart move? i mean i really do like him but we're only 14 and to me those words are like really special...ya know what i mean. i just...i'm not sure if what i said could have hurt him or not. do you think what i said was right?
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Nov 26 2004, 12:30 PM
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QUOTE(HaN4RaNg @ Nov 26 2004, 2:08 AM) not to sound mean, but GOODNESS... THANK GOD U DIDNT USE THOSE WORDS! so many immature kids using the word "love" so openly. as if its supposed to melt the other person's heart and tighten their relationship. it doesnt mean cr4p if the feeling of love isnt there and i doubt he feels that way. no offense, but i dont think anybody feels true love until after experience and understanding of the value of the word. to put it shortly, he most likely doesnt know what the words "i love u" means. he just probly thought it was the right thing to say at the right time. it was smart of u not to say it especially when u know thats not how u really feel. dont use those words so lightly thinking its going to strengthen ur relationship with him. save those words for someone u really do love. wait until u understand what they mean and the true value that they hold. it'll all b worth it for when u do use them for the first time coming from how u really feel  Yeah...true. |
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smthngcrprategrl34 i love you Nov 26 2004, 01:59 AM
iNT0XiCAT3_MEeEe well i mean the way u said it, like "im not s... Nov 26 2004, 02:05 AM HaN4RaNg not to sound mean, but GOODNESS... THANK GOD U DID... Nov 26 2004, 02:08 AM stephinika ^^^ i agree. it was smart of you to say that becau... Nov 26 2004, 02:09 AM ShadowPixie QUOTEi told him that i liked him a lot but wasn... Nov 26 2004, 03:02 AM sharerol Right. It was smart of you to say that because I ... Nov 26 2004, 03:30 AM WhiteLotus* I say,"I love you" to my boyfriend all t... Nov 26 2004, 04:07 AM jecissa save it for the one who deserves to hear it. you... Nov 26 2004, 04:10 AM oO_BrItTiShBaBe_Oo I think you did the right thing. I'm proud of ... Nov 26 2004, 05:07 AM Pineapplepower I think you did the right thing. You are to young ... Nov 26 2004, 12:15 PM krnxswat If he really "loved" you, as he told you... Nov 26 2004, 12:24 PM Statistik "I love you" is a strong word Nov 26 2004, 12:52 PM Cake. It's stupid how little kids, when they have gi... Nov 26 2004, 01:09 PM th5418 Okay nonreaders. I think we have covered the groun... Nov 26 2004, 01:13 PM choo smart move. u should say it when your not ready. i... Nov 26 2004, 01:18 PM sammi rules you QUOTE(th5418 @ Nov 26 2004, 12:13 PM)Okay non... Nov 26 2004, 01:22 PM tresa1992 Umm, my friend, who is a boy, told his girlfriend ... Nov 26 2004, 01:32 PM krnxswat QUOTE(tresa1992 @ Nov 26 2004, 1:32 PM)You ca... Nov 26 2004, 03:15 PM AngelicEyz00 i love you, seon ho Nov 26 2004, 03:16 PM krnxswat i love you more, elba Nov 26 2004, 03:22 PM AngelicEyz00 n0o, I love you more Nov 26 2004, 03:28 PM krnxswat No, you don't. I do!
It's impossible... Nov 26 2004, 03:33 PM Statistik I love ashley..she's so cuttte Nov 26 2004, 03:40 PM autumn. QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 26 2004, 3:15 PM)I disag... Nov 26 2004, 03:47 PM krnxswat QUOTE(autumn. @ Nov 26 2004, 3:47 PM)no, you ... Nov 26 2004, 03:49 PM avsugarhigh09 i think you did the right thing. i'm 13 and th... Nov 26 2004, 03:51 PM AngelicEyz00 i still love you more, Seon Ho
But I would have ... Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM Shattered_Hope hmm...well..you have a great point..very smart of ... Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM HaN4RaNg oops, nvm... already stated above Nov 26 2004, 05:15 PM simplyannoy you did the right thing! ^^ He probably said t... Nov 26 2004, 06:38 PM x shootingstar x *sigh*.. i think i've said it too soon.. but ... Nov 27 2004, 01:31 PM dani41790 yea that was the good move to make. its better to ... Nov 27 2004, 06:33 PM cleec That is so awesome that you said that to him. Most... Nov 30 2004, 03:16 PM jecissa ^ i second that.
if you aren't sure if you l... Nov 30 2004, 04:56 PM nexuskpl i think love is something everyone throws around t... Nov 30 2004, 09:51 PM imadorkabledxd i think you did a smart move there Dec 4 2004, 01:41 PM bibliomania I regret saying "I love you" to someone ... Dec 4 2004, 11:35 PM jezika if u didnt think it was appropriate then just dont... Dec 5 2004, 01:58 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 its good u didnt give into using the word love. No... Dec 5 2004, 02:09 PM Yemmerz Never ever ever ever say 'I love you'.
Yo... Dec 5 2004, 02:58 PM tungtwista love is a fallacy in middle school, high school, a... Dec 5 2004, 03:06 PM mirage don't say it until you mean it. my friends alw... Dec 5 2004, 06:37 PM smthngcrprategrl34 most of you are saying i did the right thing. whic... Dec 20 2004, 03:55 PM WishfullDreamer that WAS a smart move! *applauds* NEVER say ... Dec 20 2004, 09:59 PM aintgotone My 2 cents for all it's worth...
I happened t... Dec 21 2004, 03:47 AM comeupon QUOTE(Jason61992 @ Nov 26 2004, 12:52 PM)... Dec 21 2004, 05:20 AM K!$$ "i luv you" >> too strong for word... Dec 21 2004, 08:34 AM lilxroxy QUOTE(smthngcrprategrl34 @ Nov 26 2004, 1:59 ... Dec 26 2004, 04:48 AM anqie Good move. Too many people that I know are always ... Dec 26 2004, 05:03 AM sheepy i think you made the right choice. you just know w... Dec 26 2004, 12:06 PM HaN4RaNg COMPLETE RANDOMNESSSSS::
sheepy, u go to soompi? Dec 26 2004, 10:39 PM 177emories well if you don't mean it then you can't s... Dec 28 2004, 01:10 PM sweetlyz if that`s how you feel i believe its right to ... Dec 28 2004, 05:21 PM
remini Good for you. At least you're honest. ^^ Dec 28 2004, 10:55 PM |
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