Dealing with guys, how to... Options

[xheavenzcentzx]

How do you deal with a guy that doesn't wanna be with you, but doesn't want you to move on either? does that make sense? lemme explain...
So there's this guy.. who.. is a really awesome guy.. how awesome? oh he's got girls lined up for him. Anyway we had at talk.. and well.. He wants to 'wait' to consider 'us' until I'm a little older (cuz he's 2 years older) even though.. the age difference didn't matter 2 years AGO when I was a freshmen and he was a junior going to different schools... confusing? yah so welcome to my world. So I said.. fine.. be that way >< And so now I'm trying to get over him.. cept he's like.. not letting me? He gets way .. "angry" with me when i go talk to some other guys.. or when guys flirt with me.. and definitely when i flirt back. but remember.. he doesn't really want BE with me.. so technically he just wants me to chase him forever until he's "okay" with "us" >< what a jerk huh? well.. i can't just tell him to leave me the F alone because 1. he's my friend and 2. he's my brother's friend too.. and that wouldn't be fair to my brother. I see this guy.. WAY too much.. but h'es fun to hang out with i dont mind.. so how do i deal with this? I dont wanna keep pissing him off, but i dont wanna wait for him ><

[_sarcastic_]

talk to him about it, its not very fair if you have to wait for him until he is ready to be with you. i mean its not fair to put your life on hold just to wait for him.

if he is a good friend then he'll understand