How to get over him, ...and hopefully find someone new Options

[oO_BrItTiShBaBe_...]

Well, I don't want to get into the whole story, and I don't want to seem like I just want pity -I don't. I want help.

My supposed best friend stole my boyfriend, in October. It's now near the end of November and I'm still not over it. More like over him.

Don't you think I should not like him anymore?? I mean, I should be over him, and maybe even HATE him, considering what he did to me. But the sad, honest truth is that if I could, I would have him back.

All my friends tell me he's a jack-donkey and that I should never talk to him again, but... I don't know, something tells me [maybe it's wrong] that he might fall for me again, if I'm not mean and a mother-dog to him.

But I really don't know. I need advice. My friends also tell me that I need somebody else. I've thought about guys that could be possibilities, but nothing happens, even though I really want it to. Kind of.

So if you have any advice, please post. I need all the help I can get.

[oO_BrItTiShBaBe_...]

It's terrible that your best friend stole your boyfriend away. And plus, if he really did care for you, he wouldn't have don't what he did and he would at least try to fix your relationship with him, because it seems that you're "being mean and female-doggy." Don't EVER think you're not good enough. He doesn't deserve a great person like you, because you seemed to truly care alot about him. I can't say love, because you didn't say you loved him. But anyway, you should move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea. And remember, be the bigger personand move on, show that you don't care anymore. It's better that you do and not cling to the past. You supposively best friend backstabbed you and just don't talk to her anymore. You don't need backstabbers like her and players like your boyfriend in you life. Hopefully you find someone new that could make you happy and be there for you. 

Yeesh. That was really cool. Alot of things that you said, totally clicked. I now realise so much... thanks.

wow. hate to say it, but she's not a good friend at all... just dump her. and he's not worth it, either, if he goes out w/ someone like her.

lol karma's like... you know the saying "what goes around comes around"... basically, if she f**ks up, something f**ked up will happen to her. don't worry, she'll get what's coming. 

alright hope to hear from ya soon!!

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hope everything works out for you!! you're a great person, i know things will be fine.  hugs+kisses!

Yeah I know she and he are not worth it... but then again they are!! I hate it, but it's like one of those dumb hate-love relationships... and it is SO confusing. Well yup, he decided to rag on me today. Had me crying. Scared my sisters cause I would no tell them what was wrong. I see how he walks all over me, but I duon't know how to change it.

yeah, IT DOES feel good to relate to someone. Just the fact knowing you're not alone is a real help. Hehe, I have super late nights too, as I have been battling Insomnia for a few months now. Sounds like something out of a f**king movie, but even so, the point I'm getting at is I'll chat with you if-in you wouldn't mind me donig so. I'm always on the lookout for a new friend, or at least someone I can relate too. Let me know. 

Heck YES!! I see late nights as a good chance to spend hours online, talking or w/e while my family is asleep, so I have no one to bug me... *laughs evily* Muahahaha. lol. Yeah, I don't mind talking, lol, that's why I asked. I know what you mean, and I am always on the lookout for people who are worth it. [B]Quite a few of you seem to fall into that category.
So yeah, talk to me any time... I think it shows what messengers I have. [If not, I have all three. Ask me and I will give. ]

agh g2g sister naggin me... hate her... oooooooooooh