i love you, when to use those words |
 Nov 26 2004, 01:59 AM
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 my <3 is in Ohio  Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599  |
i was over at my boyfriend's house the other day and he told me that he loved me. we're only 14 and we've only been going out for like a month. but he told me that he'd loved me for a while. i told him that i liked him a lot but wasn't ready to use those words. was that a smart move? i mean i really do like him but we're only 14 and to me those words are like really special...ya know what i mean. i just...i'm not sure if what i said could have hurt him or not. do you think what i said was right?
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Nov 26 2004, 03:02 AM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE i told him that i liked him a lot but wasn't ready to use those words. was that a smart move? ^That was a very smart move. Now not to condescend, but most people at 14 don't know what love is. They say it because it sounds good. But I think it was really really wise of you to not say it. "I love you" is a very serious phrase, and it's good you dont use it lightly. But dont let him fall into a pattern of him telling you he loves you all the time, especially if you cant say it back to him. |
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smthngcrprategrl34 i love you Nov 26 2004, 01:59 AM
iNT0XiCAT3_MEeEe well i mean the way u said it, like "im not s... Nov 26 2004, 02:05 AM HaN4RaNg not to sound mean, but GOODNESS... THANK GOD U DID... Nov 26 2004, 02:08 AM stephinika ^^^ i agree. it was smart of you to say that becau... Nov 26 2004, 02:09 AM sharerol Right. It was smart of you to say that because I ... Nov 26 2004, 03:30 AM WhiteLotus* I say,"I love you" to my boyfriend all t... Nov 26 2004, 04:07 AM jecissa save it for the one who deserves to hear it. you... Nov 26 2004, 04:10 AM oO_BrItTiShBaBe_Oo I think you did the right thing. I'm proud of ... Nov 26 2004, 05:07 AM Pineapplepower I think you did the right thing. You are to young ... Nov 26 2004, 12:15 PM krnxswat If he really "loved" you, as he told you... Nov 26 2004, 12:24 PM xtremeliquid QUOTE(HaN4RaNg @ Nov 26 2004, 2:08 AM)not to ... Nov 26 2004, 12:30 PM Statistik "I love you" is a strong word Nov 26 2004, 12:52 PM Cake. It's stupid how little kids, when they have gi... Nov 26 2004, 01:09 PM th5418 Okay nonreaders. I think we have covered the groun... Nov 26 2004, 01:13 PM choo smart move. u should say it when your not ready. i... Nov 26 2004, 01:18 PM sammi rules you QUOTE(th5418 @ Nov 26 2004, 12:13 PM)Okay non... Nov 26 2004, 01:22 PM tresa1992 Umm, my friend, who is a boy, told his girlfriend ... Nov 26 2004, 01:32 PM krnxswat QUOTE(tresa1992 @ Nov 26 2004, 1:32 PM)You ca... Nov 26 2004, 03:15 PM AngelicEyz00 i love you, seon ho Nov 26 2004, 03:16 PM krnxswat i love you more, elba Nov 26 2004, 03:22 PM AngelicEyz00 n0o, I love you more Nov 26 2004, 03:28 PM krnxswat No, you don't. I do!
It's impossible... Nov 26 2004, 03:33 PM Statistik I love ashley..she's so cuttte Nov 26 2004, 03:40 PM autumn. QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 26 2004, 3:15 PM)I disag... Nov 26 2004, 03:47 PM krnxswat QUOTE(autumn. @ Nov 26 2004, 3:47 PM)no, you ... Nov 26 2004, 03:49 PM avsugarhigh09 i think you did the right thing. i'm 13 and th... Nov 26 2004, 03:51 PM AngelicEyz00 i still love you more, Seon Ho
But I would have ... Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM Shattered_Hope hmm...well..you have a great point..very smart of ... Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM HaN4RaNg oops, nvm... already stated above Nov 26 2004, 05:15 PM simplyannoy you did the right thing! ^^ He probably said t... Nov 26 2004, 06:38 PM x shootingstar x *sigh*.. i think i've said it too soon.. but ... Nov 27 2004, 01:31 PM dani41790 yea that was the good move to make. its better to ... Nov 27 2004, 06:33 PM cleec That is so awesome that you said that to him. Most... Nov 30 2004, 03:16 PM jecissa ^ i second that.
if you aren't sure if you l... Nov 30 2004, 04:56 PM nexuskpl i think love is something everyone throws around t... Nov 30 2004, 09:51 PM imadorkabledxd i think you did a smart move there Dec 4 2004, 01:41 PM bibliomania I regret saying "I love you" to someone ... Dec 4 2004, 11:35 PM jezika if u didnt think it was appropriate then just dont... Dec 5 2004, 01:58 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 its good u didnt give into using the word love. No... Dec 5 2004, 02:09 PM Yemmerz Never ever ever ever say 'I love you'.
Yo... Dec 5 2004, 02:58 PM tungtwista love is a fallacy in middle school, high school, a... Dec 5 2004, 03:06 PM mirage don't say it until you mean it. my friends alw... Dec 5 2004, 06:37 PM smthngcrprategrl34 most of you are saying i did the right thing. whic... Dec 20 2004, 03:55 PM WishfullDreamer that WAS a smart move! *applauds* NEVER say ... Dec 20 2004, 09:59 PM aintgotone My 2 cents for all it's worth...
I happened t... Dec 21 2004, 03:47 AM comeupon QUOTE(Jason61992 @ Nov 26 2004, 12:52 PM)... Dec 21 2004, 05:20 AM K!$$ "i luv you" >> too strong for word... Dec 21 2004, 08:34 AM lilxroxy QUOTE(smthngcrprategrl34 @ Nov 26 2004, 1:59 ... Dec 26 2004, 04:48 AM anqie Good move. Too many people that I know are always ... Dec 26 2004, 05:03 AM sheepy i think you made the right choice. you just know w... Dec 26 2004, 12:06 PM HaN4RaNg COMPLETE RANDOMNESSSSS::
sheepy, u go to soompi? Dec 26 2004, 10:39 PM 177emories well if you don't mean it then you can't s... Dec 28 2004, 01:10 PM sweetlyz if that`s how you feel i believe its right to ... Dec 28 2004, 05:21 PM
remini Good for you. At least you're honest. ^^ Dec 28 2004, 10:55 PM |
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