here comes the bride.., congratulations! |
here comes the bride.., congratulations! |
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questions make me blue. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 ![]() |
the topic name maybe nice looking but..
my friend wanted to get married to her boyfriend (1 year and 4 months) and shes only 14 and hes da same age..both of their parents wanted were urging them to get married fer some reason and she said that they really loved each other and all...but i thought that was a horrid idea...i kept on sayin 'what if you lose attraction toward each other in da future??...why can`t you wait `till yur 18?'...still she was stubborn and wanted to get married but she was unsure...she kept on askin her other friends but they would give diff answers...i didnt want her to waste her teenage years, married already...she`s not pregnant or anything...she`s not in a hurry to have sex...she friggin told me she was gonna do it when she`s 18...thats like...kinda stupid...(how can someone wait that long?!hahaha..)..but she`s not married yet...she has second thoughts whether or not to get married.. point is.. when you think you`ve found the "one"...should you get married to that person?...are teen marriages an 'okay' thing?...and when would be the right age? there are too many divorces in america nowadays...and we are the future...we should cherish our love...and obide by the words "`till death do us part.."..i know all of you know the words during a wedding ceremony... and we, girls, love to dream about our future weddings! ![]() |
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i think it's different in every situation. your friend might *think* she's ready, but when it comes down to it, she might freak out and realize how big of a step that is. my boyfriend of two and a half years asked me to marry him when he was 20 and i was 19...and a month and a half later, he bailed on it. did a 180 and changed his mind. it's one thing to think about it, but it's a totally different thing to actually do it.
either way, i hope everything works out for the best!! |
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