Im so effin PISSED Options

[Oreo_bro]

yeah so usually im the guy who takes things calmy, reads everyones problems and gives me honest opion and trys to help them here...

i do that in real life too.

People always coming to me for advice *not saying you cbers do btw* and then guess what...sure they take it, tweak it to what they feel is right, then BOOM they mess up, blame it on me, then get all pissed at me WHEN ITS NOT EVEN MY EFFIN FAULT IN THE FIRST *** DAMN PLACE. OMFG. And then when it comes to relationships...omfg i seem to be able to do such a great job with helping my friends hook up with gfs and stuff, help them with their problems, tell them things not to do especally if its stupid, and just..BE THERE, yet when they screw up themselves they blame it on me. all-on-me.

WTF!

Now lets see...right right, i finnally got a gf, wow yeah finnally..felt so good, yada yada yada...we shared a few first *nothing in bed of course but i mean, lovly dovey stuff* and its all great, all fine. her friends like me, my parents like her...but guess what..yep..her parents dont like me. Why? well they were fine with us going out until they found out i was 2 years older then how, WOW A WHOLE 2 YEARS! WOW! Shes a sophmore and im a *gasp* senior! jeez boys and girls we all know what happens when a senior goes for younger girls right? yeah! you knwo it! omg that is what they thing! they seriously think that, they told her that! WTF, im not a damn rapist or a freakin pimp, unless u consider a counsler a pimp then woot i am but otherwise hell effin NO.

So her parents didnt approve of us but at first she didnt care, told me all these wonderful things how no matter what she wouldnt be influcenced by them, yada yada yada, how she cares bout me, yada yada yada..and well wadaya know i belive her. Yep i belive her.....

*commerical*

i would like to take this time to slap myself in the face 100 times, each time for ever thinking i knew what the hell i was talking about when i ever effin gave adivce to some one. What the hell did i think i was doing, i cant even have a relationship, what buisness do i have giving advice to others on theirs?!

*back to my rant*

So now we just got off the phone, i called her, and i asked her what she was up to, she said just playin some games *yeah shes a gamer chick, score there*, and i asked her what she was doing for thanksgiving and she said visiting some family friends i said cool. Then i told her i missed her, cause i hadent seen her in a few days cause she was sick. Well then she said "Gary i dont know anymore" and i asked her what she ment, and she was all like "i dont know hwo i feel anymore, maybe my parents are right..maybe i am to young" i just stoped there and my jaw seriously droped. What the hell was this? "maybe my parents are right, maybe i am to young". wtf, shes almost 16 and im almost 18, 2 YEARS! Her parents are 5 years apart. Then she went into all this stuff about how her grades have been improving since we havent gone out *we havent gone out in about a week and a half, but i was helping her with her school work*, and about how its, in her words "just easier if i think of it this way, i dont have to worry about other things like relationships, plus my parents will be happy, and i can focus more on school..".

I cant belive it. I helped her with her damn grades, i helped her with her self esteem, i was there for her when her aunt died, i was there for her when her parents were mad, i was THERE FOR HER, and now shes gonna throw it all away after all that, just cause shes feeling scared and cause her parents are displeased with her. I can understand if her parents were "angry" but they are more like "go otu if u want but we dont like it".

So..i dont know, i guess im sorry for all the jackass advice i've given all of you here at cb, its apparent that my advice sucks since i cant use it myself, i just feel used and a failure, and unable to handel anything.

oh have a great thanksgiving btw.

~Oreo


P.S. May all of you live healthy and happy relationships.

[jennyjenny]

Your advice HAS been good.
And it's not your fault that people listen to your advice.
And if they screw up, it's not YOUR fault.

and the whole thing with your ex-girlfriend or girlfriend or whatever you wish to call her,
if she REALLY cared for you, she wouldn't care if her PARENTS hated you.
It seems like she's taken advantage...
I mean, you help her...
But what have you got in exchange besides getting mad?