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Advice..., somebody I really like
Knight
post Nov 21 2004, 05:06 PM
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Hey createblog- I'm back for a little advice after a long time break biggrin.gif

There's somebody I know really well in my class... She's always nice to me, and I've almost never gotten into an argument with her. I've been hanging out with her a lot (I still don't think she knows I like her after all these signals). I was just at a party today, and she was there too. We talked about 3 and a half hours about life, told each other some stuff about our family, and a lot of other things that we wouldn't tell anybody else. Well, the truth is I have no idea how to tell her. It's reaaaaaaaaaally tough for me to tell people this kind of thing... I'm a pre-teen that's just starting to mature. I'm not the kind of person that would have much experience with this kind of thing... I really need some help here. What should I do?

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Just_Dream
post Nov 25 2004, 12:56 AM
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Age shouldn't really matter. But it's not that you love her, but that you like her alot. Since it's your first time (that you liked someone and wanted to tell them), I agree find a quiet place. You don't want anyone else there because she needs to be able to tell you face to face, without any interference. Tell her how well you can connect with her and that you care so much that you want to be her boyfriend, if IN FACT,t hat's what you want. But just tell her that you care alot about her and want her to be an important part of your life. Say some romantic, cheesy/mushy lines. They will often help wink.gif

lol But still, tell her. And giver her space. Don't be like hugging her or with your arm over her or anything. The least think you want to be is intimidating.
 

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Knight   Advice...   Nov 21 2004, 05:06 PM
Knight   Hey I'm sorry I have to double post but people...   Nov 21 2004, 06:02 PM
waccoon   You're too young. *pats head*   Nov 21 2004, 09:43 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Well. If you're a pre-teen, then you must be u...   Nov 21 2004, 10:04 PM
Winter   I agree with ^. Just tell her.   Nov 21 2004, 10:06 PM
ShadowPixie   Tell her. It's only scary the first time.   Nov 21 2004, 10:30 PM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   walk up to her. kiss her on the cheek. turn on y...   Nov 21 2004, 10:42 PM
Knight   QUOTE(DaToNeViEtBoI916 @ Nov 21 2004, 10:42 P...   Nov 24 2004, 05:40 PM
lurideyes   age has nothing to do with it, you can start rela...   Nov 24 2004, 08:23 PM
Knight   QUOTE(lurideyes @ Nov 24 2004, 8:23 PM)age ha...   Nov 24 2004, 08:28 PM
lurideyes   Tell her anyway...it's important to be upfront...   Nov 24 2004, 08:30 PM
Knight   QUOTE(lurideyes @ Nov 24 2004, 8:30 PM)Tell h...   Nov 24 2004, 08:36 PM
lurideyes   no problem, but i dont think you realize...it real...   Nov 24 2004, 08:37 PM
Smartguy10892   Well...if you don't wanna tell her in real lif...   Nov 24 2004, 08:56 PM
blowpops69   just tell her. take her away from her friends, ask...   Nov 24 2004, 10:14 PM
DixieDaCutie   talk2 her like you usually do, then just tell her ...   Nov 24 2004, 11:08 PM
wind&fire   email this thread to her...   Nov 24 2004, 11:38 PM
Just_Dream   Age shouldn't really matter. But it's not ...   Nov 25 2004, 12:56 AM
Knight   QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Nov 24 2004, 11:38 PM)email t...   Nov 25 2004, 08:45 AM


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