How to get over him, ...and hopefully find someone new Options

[oO_BrItTiShBaBe_...]

Well, I don't want to get into the whole story, and I don't want to seem like I just want pity -I don't. I want help.

My supposed best friend stole my boyfriend, in October. It's now near the end of November and I'm still not over it. More like over him.

Don't you think I should not like him anymore?? I mean, I should be over him, and maybe even HATE him, considering what he did to me. But the sad, honest truth is that if I could, I would have him back.

All my friends tell me he's a jack-donkey and that I should never talk to him again, but... I don't know, something tells me [maybe it's wrong] that he might fall for me again, if I'm not mean and a mother-dog to him.

But I really don't know. I need advice. My friends also tell me that I need somebody else. I've thought about guys that could be possibilities, but nothing happens, even though I really want it to. Kind of.

So if you have any advice, please post. I need all the help I can get.

[Just_Dream]

It's terrible that your best friend stole your boyfriend away. And plus, if he really did care for you, he wouldn't have don't what he did and he would at least try to fix your relationship with him, because it seems that you're "being mean and female-doggy." Don't EVER think you're not good enough. He doesn't deserve a great person like you, because you seemed to truly care alot about him. I can't say love, because you didn't say you loved him. But anyway, you should move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea. And remember, be the bigger personand move on, show that you don't care anymore. It's better that you do and not cling to the past. You supposively best friend backstabbed you and just don't talk to her anymore. You don't need backstabbers like her and players like your boyfriend in you life. Hopefully you find someone new that could make you happy and be there for you.