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[iheartsimba]

ok simple...simple...question....

what the f**k is going on.

what i mean is, we get a lot of "n00bs" here all of the time.
many of them have never been on forums before, and don't know everything about them and all...but come on, why is everyone being so mean to them? i mean...a little mistake, like posting in the wrong forum, and about every single post in that topic is yelling at them about that. someone spells a few words wrong, and they get completely bashed. its like there are 2 sections of people here. you are either a "n00b" and constantly seem to get bashed with like eveything you say, or i suppose you are the "basher". Just because you've been here a little longer than other gives nobody any right to treat them like dirt. What I mean by this, is i understand that some people are jsut "brutally honest" in a sort of mean way...but does everyone whos been here over a month have to be like that? when i first came here, everyone was so nice. I'm serious. I hadn't seen anything negitive for a long time. then, im not really sure what happened, but its like being a bitch to everyone, was some sort of way to earn respect. but lets face it, many of the people on here are very rude to the newer people. people get so mad if a topics in the wrong spot, or they "tYp3 LyK D1s!!11!!1!one!!!1!!!11one!!" or whatever. all i ask, is can we show a little respect for one another? lets be a little bit more mature? =/

I just wanted to make this topic...because of my opinion of how i feel everytime i come here. i see so many mean things, and i want to reply, but i feel like i'll become the center of the bashing. and please respect my opinion. thanks.

also- there is a difference between confronting someone if they really do make a mistake, and yelling at them. personally, i think they will listen better by confronting them in a reasonal mannor.

btw- this topic was not directed towards any individuals at all. just a bunch of people in general.

don't be scared to reply.

[teenprincess]

I'm not a basher or a bashee. But I agree, people who bash other people piss me off. I remember one time when I was semi new some girl said that I made a topic that someone else also made even though I made it before that person, and she called me a n00b. So I started yelling at her and yea she didn't reply back.