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 Nov 19 2004, 06:10 PM
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 I'm Lost In My Own kryptonite  Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,556  |
What would you do if you knew someone who cut themselves? i know it's dangerous but my friend does it cause of problems at her/his house. what should i do? or can i do anything?
 
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Nov 20 2004, 03:55 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You should try to tell her that it's bad, that she coudl die from it. Say it ina worried, caring voice. Even if your friend gets mad; just tell him/her that you're there to talk to, that you want to help. If s/he says that they don't want your help, that they wouldn't understand, then just tell them "well I'm here to listen, if you need me." And just back off. Don't try to keep pressuring him/her to tell you. But anyway, I don't know what you really should do since I've never cut before, nor do I know anyone who cuts. But the best thing to do is to give them some space, but reassure them that you do care, that you would miss them alot if they died, that there are people who care about them and they should try to find a new hobby to keep them busy, instead of hurting themselves.
There is a member here who has started weightlifting (I believe) and stopped cutting. She knows who she is and I just want to tell her sorry for mentioning this. But I'm glad that she has found a new way to relieve stress and pain, in a healthier way.  congratulations to her.MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS |
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LostInMyKryptonite What would you do Nov 19 2004, 06:10 PM
teenprincess talk to her and tell her that what she's doing... Nov 19 2004, 06:11 PM royalfreshness I agree with teenprincess, it's better to say ... Nov 19 2004, 06:17 PM LostInMyKryptonite see that's the thing, i talked to her about it... Nov 19 2004, 06:18 PM mirage yeah, my friends does it too.... it's just so ... Nov 19 2004, 06:19 PM Cake. Bleh...
I know a friend who's cut herself.. bu... Nov 19 2004, 09:01 PM emrzz09 Eh, I once knew a friend who cut herself (this was... Nov 19 2004, 11:06 PM pAtRiCk_sTar maybe she should see a school counselor or somethi... Nov 20 2004, 01:11 AM MyVermilionPlague Go ahead and talk, but it most likely won't wo... Nov 20 2004, 01:12 AM waccoon Buy them some razors. Nov 20 2004, 09:27 AM vivien ppl in my sku always cut themselves
lots of my sku... Nov 20 2004, 10:03 AM blowpops69 QUOTE(emrzz09 @ Nov 19 2004, 11:06 PM)Eh, I o... Nov 20 2004, 10:20 AM lil_shadow aww....that must be real hard trying to talk to he... Nov 20 2004, 04:00 PM LostInMyKryptonite wow, ya'll have helped alot, i think i'll ... Nov 20 2004, 04:01 PM
lilteardrop what lil_shadow said goodluck! Nov 20 2004, 04:02 PM |
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