Answer me a simple question, please.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Why is it.

That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality.

But

When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person?

The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same?



i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge?

why..

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

i couldn't agree with you more. however, realistically it's in one's nature for looks to count along with personality. i most definitely feel that personality is more important but looks do play a role as well. you can't just force yourself to be happy with someone you aren't physically attracted to.. either the attraction is there with personality and looks or it isn't..i can't fully judge because i haven't been in a situation that would show my true opinion on the matter. however, it also ranges on people's tastes and what they consider to be good looking .. someone can be happy with a wonderful person but others will look at them and think *what the fcuk!?* lol .. so i don't know .. i personally go by both .. personality is the major factor.. but they still have to be somewhat appealing and good to my eyes :)