Answer me a simple question, please.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Why is it.

That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality.

But

When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person?

The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same?



i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge?

why..

[IamNoBody]

eeep i think i'm saying something someone else already has so sorry if i do but yea i think it's because when you're someones friend it matters more what their personality is so they can help you and stuff and you don't really care about their looks becaus ei mean its your FRIEND....you don't relally need them to be pretty ( I'm confusing myself...lol) yea but if you're going out with someone their appearance is what first "catches" your attention cause you can't see their personality...... sorry...i don't think this made sense just now....but good topic!!