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A big topic, in a young age., How do we reconize love?
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post Nov 3 2004, 03:55 PM
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People nowadays dates when they're still like, i dunno, 10? Isn't that a bit too young? Girls claim that it's true love, but then a month later, they break up crying , having to find out that their boys were cheating on them.
I am honestly disgusted by the percent of people dating is more than 65 percent, that hasn't even reached 14 yet. Some are pressured into getting into a relationship. Some thinks that it's real at the age of 11. Others are just playing.
Many that read this may not agree wiht me. That's ok, because it's an opinion of my own. But personally, they should have learn to reconize SENSE earlier on, so that we won't be "heartbroken" so fast. What if you're still pregnent at age 15?'
Think about what TRUE LOVE is. You still have some of the best years of your life ahead of you to get a boyfriend in high school or college. You'll feel happier and more experienced that way.
I've told many, when they had asked me, that i'll start dating at the age of 18. After all, i still have schoolwork to focus on. Finding a husband will have to wait.
Please, just think about it.
 
 
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post Nov 16 2004, 08:55 PM
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I fell in love whe I was 14. Maybe at that time, I was wrong to claim what I had with my boyfriend to be love... But right now I really AM in love with my boyfriend. I still get butterflies when I see him, but mainly if I'm alone with him becuase nothing seems to matter. I feel a sense of security when I'm with him and just the sight of him makes me happy.

Love does take time to develop, but you can't just say that people who are young don't really know what love is. Just because the majority aren't odl enough to really know what love is, they still have love for their family. Actually, I think kiddish love, or "puppy love" IMO, would still count because maybe they do know what love is. My half sister has been with her boyfriend (now fiance) since she was in middle school, or so I've heard. She's 30 years old now. She's still with him and they're living together in New Hampshire. I bet she was in love after a month of dating him; she really cares alot about him and he really cares alot about her. Yea sure, there's alot of young people that think they're in love and in reality, they are not, but there's still a tiny percentage of young couples that do fall in love and DO know what love is.

I hate it when the words "I love you" are thrown around and then the couple breaks up. rolleyes.gif
 

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TheBlueBearPatrol   A big topic, in a young age.   Nov 3 2004, 03:55 PM
someflipguy   I say that your not mature enough body and mind un...   Nov 3 2004, 04:05 PM
BBYxTEE   We ain`t ready.. Girls talk about that stuff l...   Nov 3 2004, 04:08 PM
eli5e   ^ i agree.... =P   Nov 3 2004, 05:07 PM
mz anita xP   well, i've noticed many are dating at a young ...   Nov 3 2004, 05:23 PM
airam   i stole this from on my friends AIM profile, ...   Nov 3 2004, 05:28 PM
MasteRxKiD   Love is an emotion. An emotion that is blind to ag...   Nov 3 2004, 05:30 PM
mSz_dOrk_anGeL   QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Nov 3 2004, 6:30 PM)Love i...   Nov 3 2004, 05:35 PM
f00LisH_h3aRt63   QUOTE(someflipguy @ Nov 3 2004, 11:05 AM)I sa...   Nov 4 2004, 01:34 PM
metabolic666   QUOTE(someflipguy @ Nov 3 2004, 4:05 PM)I say...   Nov 4 2004, 02:33 PM
goofipinay   'you don't go to high school to find your ...   Nov 4 2004, 05:04 PM
Shattered_Hope   no matter what age you are....you will never be ab...   Nov 4 2004, 05:14 PM
sheddingtears   Yeah seeing little kids in elementary school and m...   Nov 7 2004, 11:16 PM
blowpops69   i agree. no one realy knows what true love is unl...   Nov 8 2004, 06:03 PM
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.   i dont agree. For me, not all my relationships are...   Nov 8 2004, 06:11 PM
jambaJUICE   the phrase "I Love You" pisses me off. I...   Nov 8 2004, 06:15 PM
pyrochick19770   Totally & completely TRUE. Love is not a thing...   Nov 8 2004, 06:41 PM
mr_brigtside   I think most of it is peer pressure Its like ...   Nov 8 2004, 08:20 PM
stephinika   i'm bored so i'm going to thoroughly go th...   Nov 8 2004, 09:52 PM
xPartyGrlDx   QUOTE(airam @ Nov 3 2004, 5:28 PM)i stole thi...   Nov 8 2004, 10:14 PM
Levy2k6   all of ya are crazy, im 16 and single.. i been sin...   Nov 8 2004, 10:26 PM
DaTru KataLYST   I agree with with airam's statement. All thi...   Nov 8 2004, 10:39 PM
dani41790   i agree. it kinda pisses me off wen i see little s...   Nov 8 2004, 10:48 PM
teenprincess   I don't know if it's 65%. I only know a co...   Nov 8 2004, 10:56 PM
houjin_himo   most girls at the age of 10-14, when they say the ...   Nov 14 2004, 02:53 AM
s0emotionalx3   QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Nov 3 2004, 3:30 PM)Love i...   Nov 14 2004, 05:49 PM
mr_brigtside   I really think that you really hafta no yourself b...   Nov 15 2004, 06:12 PM
RiC3xBoy   true love is overused, and some people dont really...   Nov 15 2004, 10:42 PM
IamNoBody   well....I'm 12 so I'm about the age you gu...   Nov 16 2004, 12:01 AM
ichiban   Eh. Well I guess anyone at any age can experience ...   Nov 16 2004, 01:24 AM
azn hunni xox   Ohh, I sorta agree with you... sorta not. I mean,...   Nov 16 2004, 03:22 AM
Just_Dream   I fell in love whe I was 14. Maybe at that time, I...   Nov 16 2004, 08:55 PM
shortAY_07   Yeah, I agree with ya. ;D I didn't start ...   Nov 17 2004, 12:03 AM
RIcEB0IAnTh   True love mean u dun always have to have tat perso...   Nov 18 2004, 12:20 AM


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