Answer me a simple question, please.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Why is it.

That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality.

But

When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person?

The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same?



i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge?

why..

[kaytee_lou]

i know a guy who is like that .. used to, when we hung out .. we used to be really close, but when he got around a lot of guys .. he wouldnt say one word to me .. i think a lot of people are different around others because their afraid of what someone might think if they go out with someone who doesnt look as good as someone else does .. it's like some guys wont go out with girls if they're not skinny enough or tall enough or gorgeous enough because they dont want their other friends making fun of them for going out with someone who isnt the best looking .. its not just guys though, girls are like that too .. i used to say that if i had a boyfriend, he would have to be cute .. but when you start hanging out with people, and they have a great personality .. they start to become better looking .. so it shouldnt matter if they're the most gorgeous person in the world, or just okay .. i dont think you should judge someone on their outside appearance, even though i still do it .. like if i see a guy in the mall, i'll either say hes cute or ugly .. and thats judging him .. its just a habit of mine though!