If you were truly in love with some one.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Well i was sitting studying for spanish and my friend told me to come over to the comp. he's off it now and hes wanting me to ask u guys this question (the poll). Anyways he met a canadian girl over the internet around..december of last year, and they are in love. they call each other and stuff too (canada is like right next door).

anyways he told her some very sweet stuff which im gonna post, then i'll give her response, then u tell me would u go to her to be with her if u had the chance. (yes hes wanting me to post all this).

(this is over msn btw)

i cant be their with u right now, to stop all your pain, to hold u tight, but i can tell you how much i feel and how much u mean
____ i love you very much baby
i have loved no girl this much before in my lfie
i can not tell u what the future holds, we may never meet, we may each find some one eles and fall in love and get married, ____ i will tell u this, i will never forgot u.
i want to meet u so badly, and be there for u
i want to be theo ne to take the blades out of your hand and hold you tight
i want to be the one that fights away all your fears
i want to be yours ___, i want to be your one and only, i want you...

and her response.

how come you treat me better than anyone ive ever met? and i cant even be with you..
its not fair.
i cant hold you and whisper words of love in your ear.. i cant play fight with you and i cant get lost in your arms.
.. i cant turn around and see you there when tears are falling down my face from havin my heart broken.. again.. i cant curl up on my bed and have you lay down beside me just to hold me..
i wish more than anything that you were here right now..


yes we have both seen her pic, we have seen her on her webcam *nothing bad, just to prove she was a girl way back when*, we have both talked to her, she is real and they are both really in love. he has told his parents and they dont mind. i told him to go for it since hes about to graduate.

what do u guys think?

and please dont give me the "omg how lame is a internet crush" k get outta here i didnt ask for that i want a yes or no, they may have met on the net but they love each other greatly, my uncle met his wife on the net and they are both living happily so it can happen.

[Oreo_bro]

Good luck to your friend, but i-net relationships don't work.

maybe you dont know anyone who its worked for, but trust me, it does.

she could be real and its not lame.......but the thing behind it ish, love can be blind. When you are far apart lke that, you cant SEE the difficult things that you will face when you are together, you cant FEEL the agony or the pain the other person is giving you...........lets put it like this.....he talk to her over the phone or chat or wutever, those are just words, its goign to be WAYYYY different than that if he meet her in person...its a whole different experience. im not saying that it is bad if he go that far to see her............im saying "is it worth it?" tell him to think twice. but if he do go see her, tell him not to regret anything......thats a part of experience.

I can see what your getting at, actually its been awhile since i've updated. They plan to get together at christmas, his folks are going to canada to spend some time with relatives or something, and hes going, and he told his parents and she told hers and both parents talked yada yada yada, they are gonna meet and hopefully things go good.

One problem though.


that b@$+3rd wont take me