Answer me a simple question, please.. |
 Nov 15 2004, 03:17 AM
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Why is it.
That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality. But When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person? The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same? i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge? why.. |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:49 PM
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to add a little more info.
this isnt really about somethign that happend to me, i already have a gf so yeah... this is more for my 2nd best buddy cause he was asking me the same question yesterday at school, was just wondering what people, the girls especally thought. cause u see. He is friends with this girl thats not REALLY popular but she is popular a little, and they are close, like she crys on his shoulder and shares her deepest darkest secrets with him *wich he wont tell me lol* and i mean she was single too. Hes not the most attractive guy in the world by far, hes a little chubby, not cause hes lazy, but cause he use to play football and he gained weight back then. He wears glasses/contacts and he wears sorta inbetween tight and loose clothing. Now a lot of people, and i mena like me, my friends, and even the girls friends, though my buddy and her were gonna get together, well the time came and he was gonna ask her out but like, she asked this one hot guy out just cause he was hot! her friends even said that! hell, i was there when they aske dher why did she ask him out, they al know he's a b!tch *he is, hes mean to people an dplays pranks on kids in jr high* and she said "cause he was hot and avaible". so right..a bitchy hot guy gets lucky, when a cute nice guy gets left in the dust...yeah.. oh and i didnt mena this to be sexist or anything, it was just the situation |
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Oreo_bro Answer me a simple question Nov 15 2004, 03:17 AM
tainted_angel I don't see why you are focusing on the girls ... Nov 15 2004, 05:57 AM Winter I'm always friends with a guy before we go out... Nov 15 2004, 09:58 AM DoOdOox3 ok i c what u mean
ok maybe herez the scenerio..
a... Nov 15 2004, 10:01 AM Edele Okay. Most of the time looks don't matter. Atl... Nov 15 2004, 01:49 PM stephinika yeah thats just how people are. and looks are more... Nov 15 2004, 02:45 PM krnxswat Where'd you plagarize the first 5 paragraphs f... Nov 15 2004, 02:51 PM Weird addiction i have no idea why Nov 15 2004, 02:56 PM airam [i didn't read the other posts yet, so sorry i... Nov 15 2004, 04:59 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY i`m not sure but i think it`s because then... Nov 15 2004, 06:54 PM teenprincess that's a good question, I've never actuall... Nov 15 2004, 07:38 PM kaytee_lou i know a guy who is like that .. used to, when we ... Nov 16 2004, 02:06 PM xsilent_kidx its becasue when your seen wiht a (quote"ugly... Nov 16 2004, 02:12 PM shortAY_07 I think it's just human instinct to go for phy... Nov 17 2004, 12:11 AM krnxswat Love how you just ignored my question. Nov 17 2004, 09:55 AM Chaos13 whoa! thats a good topic you've brought up... Nov 17 2004, 10:22 AM houjin_himo i AGREE WiTH WiNTER Nov 18 2004, 04:44 PM IamNoBody eeep i think i'm saying something someone else... Nov 18 2004, 07:43 PM eversosweet QUOTE(shortAY_07 @ Nov 17 2004, 12:11 AM)i th... Nov 18 2004, 07:51 PM NvieDi3ai3yGrL i couldn't agree with you more. however, reali... Nov 18 2004, 10:20 PM barelyy_coherent Well. If you want me to go all scientific on you..... Nov 18 2004, 10:58 PM sheddingtears wow that was deep. you deserve an applause.
lol... Nov 19 2004, 10:09 PM Justingamemaster QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Nov 15 2004, 1:17 AM)Why is ... Nov 19 2004, 10:13 PM Just_Dream You can't possibly tell me that you've nev... Nov 19 2004, 10:21 PM Guarneri when you fall in love... the ugliest person in the... Nov 20 2004, 02:17 AM
l_anqeless_l yeah because to date someone there has to be an in... Nov 20 2004, 02:53 AM |
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