Answer me a simple question, please.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Why is it.

That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality.

But

When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person?

The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same?



i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge?

why..

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[i didn't read the other posts yet, so sorry if i'm repeating things]
btw, i'm a girl (last time i checked!)
but um, yeah.
i'm proably going to come off as shallow here but...

looks DO matter, when first seeing someone. it's how you remember them and what makes you want to know more or less about them.
some people aren't attractive because of their looks, but their personality. it's when you first see them and they aren't the hottest thing in the world (next to me, of course. haha) but once you get to know them and they're like really cool and all, you think differently and they're cute because of how they act.

or maybe it's the other way. some people who are attractive when it comes to looks, but when you get to know them more, they aren't so pretty/hot anymore because of their personality and the things they do.

i make no sense.