Answer me a simple question, please.. Options

[Oreo_bro]

Why is it.

That when it comes to friendship, it doenst matter what you look like, if your a good friend thats what you are, regardless of looks/personality.

But

When it comes to gf/bf, even if you have a great personality, and the person likes being with you, if your not hot/handsom then you have no chance with the one you love when compared to a supermodel type person?

The question is, in its simpilist forum, is why do people, guys and girls, let outwardly appearance affect their decision? When in all reality, looks are only skin deep and fade with time, yet the inner beauty remains the same?



i just..cant..figure this out girls, pls tell me why so many of you *and yes guys are included but im focusing on the girls for a moment, not saying all girls do this, but just in general* let looks be the judge?

why..

[Edele]

Okay. Most of the time looks don't matter. Atleast not to me. But you know, what I consider attractive, might not be attractive to the general public. I don't like guys that have six packs, and are buff, and such. I like guys with glasses, wear t-shirts/hoodies, jeans, and tennis shoes, that look a little geeky.

But the reason looks DO go into account is simply because you HAVE to be physically attracted to someone to have things workout. It has to be a balance between the two, half physical attraction and half personality or emotional attraction.

P.S. Everyone has their owns tastes. So, how one person might find someone physically and emotionally attracted, another person may not.

Balance.

Given some people choose physical more. But hey, that's life.