family issues, mom feels bad |
family issues, mom feels bad |
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![]() A.K.A. Simplicityxx ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,878 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,813 ![]() |
i have family over in india ( im viet/chinese, and yes, my dads family moved to india). now 2 of my uncles and his family from there plan to move here. they plan at staying @ my house for a few months while they get everything straightened out. my family already has 4 ppl, so when they move in there will be 12 ppl altogether. i kno that they r good ppl and they will help around and cook but it is tremendoes stress on my mom. me and my brother are going 2 help her in anyway we can.
also, my dad is unemployed so having 8 more ppl move in with us is going 2 b hectic. my uncle is going to drop his kids off here and go back to india for a few weeks to finalize things. also, the same uncle is gonna get a kidney transplant. my dad is paying for all of this, plane trips, tickets, surgery, housing for my relatives, food for when they come. i have cousins up in seattle but my relatives dont want 2 move there. and what really pisses me off is that they r millionares and arent paying for anything. im worried for us financially, and the stress that it would be for my mom and dad. its bad enough i get so much homework and my brother will b off to college soon, but my cousins that are moving here will also be going 2 my skool. it mite not seem bad but for me, since this will b my first time meeting them, is gonna be really uncomfortable. does this sound confusing to you? this was pretty much to rant and get my feelings out. but ig u have any advice, please tell me. |
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those people who are moving in should help pay for the stuff. and they should be the ones getting jobs. i give you a lot of props for dealing with this stuff. you have my sympathies. good luck with your whole family.
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