I'm really scared, I'm afraid of my boyfriend |
 Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
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My boyfriend lives like 30 minutes away from me. We started going out like 5 months ago. The first month was great he was really cool and nice. Then all of a sudden he was slitting his wrists and smoking. I knew that he was gothic and punk and stuff but he was just acting way too evil, though I am not implying that goths and punks are evil. Anyway, then his friends started talking to me and telling me that he's a "pothead". I thought they were just trying to make me break up with him. So I ignored them. Then one day we were all hangning out and he was wearing a black t-shirt and I could see the scars on his arms. It really scared me. And then he asked me if I wanted to smoke some pot. I said "No" and he got all mad and started saying that I just didn't like him and then he tried to hit me but I knew that he was going to so i moved back and he started yeeling and then his sister came downstairs and talked to him and I left. Now all of his friends and he are telling me how sorry he is and that he'll never do it again. But I know that sometimes people say that but it always happens again. But I really truly like him and I want to see him get better. But if I reject him I'm afraid he's going to continue cutting himself and be very hurt. Please give whatever helpful advice you have!!!
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Nov 14 2004, 11:01 AM
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it doesn't matter that he cuts himself, that is his choice, if you still care about him go back with him, he said sorry so he must care about you too
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Pinkxstar I'm really scared Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
xquizit Wrong forum hun.
Topic Moved Oct 24 2004, 05:28 PM airam leave him Oct 24 2004, 05:29 PM Pinkxstar oops-ee-doodles! ugh. i hate putting things in... Oct 24 2004, 05:33 PM sunissed14127 ok, if a guy is going to treat u like that,hes not... Oct 24 2004, 05:36 PM sweetdreamsx3 Face it. If you stay with him, you'll still en... Oct 24 2004, 05:51 PM helllla jankyyyy Dump him. He'll do it again & again Oct 24 2004, 06:08 PM Danny wow... well... you can do one of two things, do wh... Oct 24 2004, 06:34 PM islandkiss omgosh.
when guys say they won't, they alway... Oct 24 2004, 07:27 PM sweetdreamsx3 QUOTE(Danny @ Oct 24 2004, 6:34 PM)wow... wel... Oct 24 2004, 07:40 PM Heathasm dump him...if he is stupid enough to be acting lik... Oct 24 2004, 07:54 PM mouse_3k dump him damn..just leave him, he is a fearful guy... Oct 24 2004, 07:55 PM Danny QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 24 2004, 8:40 PM)Wh... Oct 24 2004, 08:07 PM lilxroxy QUOTE(Pinkxstar @ Oct 24 2004, 5:25 PM)My boy... Oct 26 2004, 07:26 AM captured_serenity leave him! seriously don't stay with him. ... Oct 26 2004, 08:09 AM Weird addiction quit le----meaning leave him Oct 26 2004, 11:01 AM AngelicEyz00 5 months.... err, I dunno, I don't think I... Oct 26 2004, 01:20 PM 177emories girl u can't be with osmeone ur scared of, mov... Oct 26 2004, 10:39 PM nlgrl my boyfriend is gothic but he's totally oppisi... Oct 27 2004, 05:27 AM nyCzxfOx DUDE DONT DUMP HIM!!!!!! I... Oct 27 2004, 03:05 PM Shattered_Hope hmm...this is hard...i mean...any advice given to ... Oct 27 2004, 05:40 PM christiee_nax my boyfriends gothic too. and he used to be like t... Oct 27 2004, 05:46 PM sheddingtears try talking to him. if he doesn't change for t... Nov 9 2004, 12:07 AM MyVermilionPlague Hard.
Try talking to him before you do anything dr... Nov 10 2004, 05:25 PM blowpops69 ..if i were u dump him. and stil b friends.
or u c... Nov 10 2004, 06:27 PM conster y dont u give u and him a period of time like a we... Nov 10 2004, 11:40 PM audory QUOTE(nyCzxfOx @ Oct 27 2004, 3:05 PM)DUDE DO... Nov 11 2004, 06:46 PM xnastyninjagrlx well if you really really like him, you need to co... Nov 11 2004, 07:58 PM justin_park85 well if you truly love him, believe him. if he say... Nov 12 2004, 10:25 PM LiLaZnGirL122 babi.. jus leave him hes just saying this but wen ... Nov 12 2004, 11:03 PM Suesterrx dont u ppl get that he'll get upset and start ... Nov 12 2004, 11:40 PM sammi rules you don't be with him; it'll put too much stre... Nov 13 2004, 08:45 AM houjin_himo i agree with everybody....u would be better off if... Nov 14 2004, 02:38 AM betrayedbytheducky hmm..do you and him still talk to each other? he... Nov 14 2004, 05:52 PM tooeffingcrazy i highly encourage you to leave him. he isnt worth... Nov 14 2004, 08:46 PM
kaytee_lou first, try and talk to him .. tell him that you wo... Nov 16 2004, 02:11 PM |
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