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I'm really scared, I'm afraid of my boyfriend
Pinkxstar
post Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
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My boyfriend lives like 30 minutes away from me. We started going out like 5 months ago. The first month was great he was really cool and nice. Then all of a sudden he was slitting his wrists and smoking. I knew that he was gothic and punk and stuff but he was just acting way too evil, though I am not implying that goths and punks are evil. Anyway, then his friends started talking to me and telling me that he's a "pothead". I thought they were just trying to make me break up with him. So I ignored them. Then one day we were all hangning out and he was wearing a black t-shirt and I could see the scars on his arms. It really scared me. And then he asked me if I wanted to smoke some pot. I said "No" and he got all mad and started saying that I just didn't like him and then he tried to hit me but I knew that he was going to so i moved back and he started yeeling and then his sister came downstairs and talked to him and I left. Now all of his friends and he are telling me how sorry he is and that he'll never do it again. But I know that sometimes people say that but it always happens again. But I really truly like him and I want to see him get better. But if I reject him I'm afraid he's going to continue cutting himself and be very hurt. Please give whatever helpful advice you have!!!
 
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 02:38 AM
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i agree with everybody....u would be better off if u broke up with him and maybe not even be friends. cuz then theres no point, its gonna make u feel awkward
 

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Pinkxstar   I'm really scared   Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
xquizit   Wrong forum hun. Topic Moved   Oct 24 2004, 05:28 PM
airam   leave him   Oct 24 2004, 05:29 PM
Pinkxstar   oops-ee-doodles! ugh. i hate putting things in...   Oct 24 2004, 05:33 PM
sunissed14127   ok, if a guy is going to treat u like that,hes not...   Oct 24 2004, 05:36 PM
sweetdreamsx3   Face it. If you stay with him, you'll still en...   Oct 24 2004, 05:51 PM
helllla jankyyyy   Dump him. He'll do it again & again   Oct 24 2004, 06:08 PM
Danny   wow... well... you can do one of two things, do wh...   Oct 24 2004, 06:34 PM
islandkiss   omgosh. when guys say they won't, they alway...   Oct 24 2004, 07:27 PM
sweetdreamsx3   QUOTE(Danny @ Oct 24 2004, 6:34 PM)wow... wel...   Oct 24 2004, 07:40 PM
Heathasm   dump him...if he is stupid enough to be acting lik...   Oct 24 2004, 07:54 PM
mouse_3k   dump him damn..just leave him, he is a fearful guy...   Oct 24 2004, 07:55 PM
Danny   QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 24 2004, 8:40 PM)Wh...   Oct 24 2004, 08:07 PM
lilxroxy   QUOTE(Pinkxstar @ Oct 24 2004, 5:25 PM)My boy...   Oct 26 2004, 07:26 AM
captured_serenity   leave him! seriously don't stay with him. ...   Oct 26 2004, 08:09 AM
Weird addiction   quit le----meaning leave him   Oct 26 2004, 11:01 AM
AngelicEyz00   5 months.... err, I dunno, I don't think I...   Oct 26 2004, 01:20 PM
177emories   girl u can't be with osmeone ur scared of, mov...   Oct 26 2004, 10:39 PM
nlgrl   my boyfriend is gothic but he's totally oppisi...   Oct 27 2004, 05:27 AM
nyCzxfOx   DUDE DONT DUMP HIM!!!!!! I...   Oct 27 2004, 03:05 PM
Shattered_Hope   hmm...this is hard...i mean...any advice given to ...   Oct 27 2004, 05:40 PM
christiee_nax   my boyfriends gothic too. and he used to be like t...   Oct 27 2004, 05:46 PM
sheddingtears   try talking to him. if he doesn't change for t...   Nov 9 2004, 12:07 AM
MyVermilionPlague   Hard. Try talking to him before you do anything dr...   Nov 10 2004, 05:25 PM
blowpops69   ..if i were u dump him. and stil b friends. or u c...   Nov 10 2004, 06:27 PM
conster   y dont u give u and him a period of time like a we...   Nov 10 2004, 11:40 PM
audory   QUOTE(nyCzxfOx @ Oct 27 2004, 3:05 PM)DUDE DO...   Nov 11 2004, 06:46 PM
xnastyninjagrlx   well if you really really like him, you need to co...   Nov 11 2004, 07:58 PM
justin_park85   well if you truly love him, believe him. if he say...   Nov 12 2004, 10:25 PM
LiLaZnGirL122   babi.. jus leave him hes just saying this but wen ...   Nov 12 2004, 11:03 PM
Suesterrx   dont u ppl get that he'll get upset and start ...   Nov 12 2004, 11:40 PM
sammi rules you   don't be with him; it'll put too much stre...   Nov 13 2004, 08:45 AM
houjin_himo   i agree with everybody....u would be better off if...   Nov 14 2004, 02:38 AM
Shortiiex   it doesn't matter that he cuts himself, that i...   Nov 14 2004, 11:01 AM
betrayedbytheducky   hmm..do you and him still talk to each other? he...   Nov 14 2004, 05:52 PM
tooeffingcrazy   i highly encourage you to leave him. he isnt worth...   Nov 14 2004, 08:46 PM
kaytee_lou   first, try and talk to him .. tell him that you wo...   Nov 16 2004, 02:11 PM


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