I'm really scared, I'm afraid of my boyfriend |
 Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
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My boyfriend lives like 30 minutes away from me. We started going out like 5 months ago. The first month was great he was really cool and nice. Then all of a sudden he was slitting his wrists and smoking. I knew that he was gothic and punk and stuff but he was just acting way too evil, though I am not implying that goths and punks are evil. Anyway, then his friends started talking to me and telling me that he's a "pothead". I thought they were just trying to make me break up with him. So I ignored them. Then one day we were all hangning out and he was wearing a black t-shirt and I could see the scars on his arms. It really scared me. And then he asked me if I wanted to smoke some pot. I said "No" and he got all mad and started saying that I just didn't like him and then he tried to hit me but I knew that he was going to so i moved back and he started yeeling and then his sister came downstairs and talked to him and I left. Now all of his friends and he are telling me how sorry he is and that he'll never do it again. But I know that sometimes people say that but it always happens again. But I really truly like him and I want to see him get better. But if I reject him I'm afraid he's going to continue cutting himself and be very hurt. Please give whatever helpful advice you have!!!
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Nov 11 2004, 07:58 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
well if you really really like him, you need to confront him about your feelings and how he really needs help. If that doesn't work, then I suggest to just leave him because you don't need to put up with this. You always need to think about ur own safety and hapiness first...if he doesn't make you feel safe and happy then it's not a healthy relationship.
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Pinkxstar I'm really scared Oct 24 2004, 05:25 PM
xquizit Wrong forum hun.
Topic Moved Oct 24 2004, 05:28 PM airam leave him Oct 24 2004, 05:29 PM Pinkxstar oops-ee-doodles! ugh. i hate putting things in... Oct 24 2004, 05:33 PM sunissed14127 ok, if a guy is going to treat u like that,hes not... Oct 24 2004, 05:36 PM sweetdreamsx3 Face it. If you stay with him, you'll still en... Oct 24 2004, 05:51 PM helllla jankyyyy Dump him. He'll do it again & again Oct 24 2004, 06:08 PM Danny wow... well... you can do one of two things, do wh... Oct 24 2004, 06:34 PM islandkiss omgosh.
when guys say they won't, they alway... Oct 24 2004, 07:27 PM sweetdreamsx3 QUOTE(Danny @ Oct 24 2004, 6:34 PM)wow... wel... Oct 24 2004, 07:40 PM Heathasm dump him...if he is stupid enough to be acting lik... Oct 24 2004, 07:54 PM mouse_3k dump him damn..just leave him, he is a fearful guy... Oct 24 2004, 07:55 PM Danny QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 24 2004, 8:40 PM)Wh... Oct 24 2004, 08:07 PM lilxroxy QUOTE(Pinkxstar @ Oct 24 2004, 5:25 PM)My boy... Oct 26 2004, 07:26 AM captured_serenity leave him! seriously don't stay with him. ... Oct 26 2004, 08:09 AM Weird addiction quit le----meaning leave him Oct 26 2004, 11:01 AM AngelicEyz00 5 months.... err, I dunno, I don't think I... Oct 26 2004, 01:20 PM 177emories girl u can't be with osmeone ur scared of, mov... Oct 26 2004, 10:39 PM nlgrl my boyfriend is gothic but he's totally oppisi... Oct 27 2004, 05:27 AM nyCzxfOx DUDE DONT DUMP HIM!!!!!! I... Oct 27 2004, 03:05 PM Shattered_Hope hmm...this is hard...i mean...any advice given to ... Oct 27 2004, 05:40 PM christiee_nax my boyfriends gothic too. and he used to be like t... Oct 27 2004, 05:46 PM sheddingtears try talking to him. if he doesn't change for t... Nov 9 2004, 12:07 AM MyVermilionPlague Hard.
Try talking to him before you do anything dr... Nov 10 2004, 05:25 PM blowpops69 ..if i were u dump him. and stil b friends.
or u c... Nov 10 2004, 06:27 PM conster y dont u give u and him a period of time like a we... Nov 10 2004, 11:40 PM audory QUOTE(nyCzxfOx @ Oct 27 2004, 3:05 PM)DUDE DO... Nov 11 2004, 06:46 PM justin_park85 well if you truly love him, believe him. if he say... Nov 12 2004, 10:25 PM LiLaZnGirL122 babi.. jus leave him hes just saying this but wen ... Nov 12 2004, 11:03 PM Suesterrx dont u ppl get that he'll get upset and start ... Nov 12 2004, 11:40 PM sammi rules you don't be with him; it'll put too much stre... Nov 13 2004, 08:45 AM houjin_himo i agree with everybody....u would be better off if... Nov 14 2004, 02:38 AM Shortiiex it doesn't matter that he cuts himself, that i... Nov 14 2004, 11:01 AM betrayedbytheducky hmm..do you and him still talk to each other? he... Nov 14 2004, 05:52 PM tooeffingcrazy i highly encourage you to leave him. he isnt worth... Nov 14 2004, 08:46 PM
kaytee_lou first, try and talk to him .. tell him that you wo... Nov 16 2004, 02:11 PM |
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