5 MONTHS!!!, is that pathetic? Options

[tomorrow_nvr_com...]

Ok, well I had the same boyfriend for about 4 years. His name is Brandon and he is a year younger than me to be completely honest. He is relaly cute and really sweet(well, atleast to me) and well...yeah. We were very, very, close...he knew like EVERYTHING about me, even the little things and the BIG things and we both like loved each other. Well, this last summer was amazing...we spent like everyday together and we were always hugging and stuff....then all of the sudden he broke up with me and he didnt even do it himself. I know that he got upset becuz a friend of his kissed me and told him that i lead him on....even though I didnt....but he seemed to have gotten over that. Well, it has been 5 months and I am still in love with him....is that pathetic? What should I do? I really still care about him. I need advice or support..PLZ!!!!

luv you guys
~BRitt

p.s.

the last thing I need is sumone to say sum10 mean...so plz the closest thing you can get to discouraging is constructive criticism.

[Just_Dream]

if he truly loved you, he should have told you everything about how he felt towrds it. REAL boyfriends would honestly tell you how he felt and told you what you BOTH should do to overcome that obstacle. I mean, just to break up with you for that reason? He should have know how much you really cared about him. True love is when you get over those little things and focus on the big things. If he didn't understand how much you truly cared about him, then you deserve better. Since you love him, I think it's natural that you would sitll hav a heartache after him. I know my friend who still cares about a guy that she'd been dating for a while (less than a year though) and he broke up with her. SHe really loved him and she thought he loved her as well. If you really love him and he really loves you, then you two will come back together, eventually =) 4 years is like a commitment. He should have blown it >_<"